my boyfriend and i are together a little over a month and the first time we had sex(foreplay first obviously) for some reason he "went away" if u no what i mean! i feel like its me putting him off but he says its not and tells me im extremly sexy etc...we tried again about a week after and it happened again...was d second time bcuz he felt under pressure? we were drinkin d first time if that means anything!! im not sure if it does cuz with my last boyfriend nothing mattered he'd always be hard!!or is it just me??im absolutly mad about him and he said hes mad about me too!!!
2007-12-27 10:20:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-12-27 10:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends when it happened. The first time, it sounded like he lost it during sex. That seems very strange to me, and assuming you're young it almost certainly means he had an orgasm. Whatever the case, just be all over him when it happens and don't make a big deal about it.
If it happens:
1) Smile, like you're excited to use the new seduction moves I'm about to say
2) Lick his earlobe, nipples etc. give attention in all the little places you would like yourself.
3) straddle him. This always works for me. If you can put your boobs in his face even better. Start toyin with him in this position like you're not gonna let him kiss you. Grind your hips gently while you do this (especially if he's wearing jeans)
4) if it doesn't happen right away, still don't make a big deal about it. Ask him to go down on you.
2007-12-27 18:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Be nice, or at least funny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just nervous. That can happen. Or if he was very drunk or on medication could affect it.
If it happens a lot he needs to see a doctor about it!
2007-12-27 18:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by munchkin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a "good" guy.he didnt want to do anything after yall had drinks.sounds like me.he prob wanted it to be specail cuz your specail to him.he's prob nervous that he wont be that good and is worried if he's not you might leave him.dont rush thing like this,especially on a "good' guy cuz it can turn him from good to player.
2007-12-27 18:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by oracio z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-27 18:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tantrum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably gay!! haha just kidding but all seriousness just go the extra and play with it. Tease it. Put your nipples on it. Something. Keep it up.
2007-12-27 18:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by BallerMike 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2007-12-27 18:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what really makes you feel this way? trust in your heart and the truth will set you free.. .Move forward not backwards...
2007-12-27 18:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by readyfor_you2 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get on top!
2007-12-27 18:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by santos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋