Would a guy keep text messaging you occasionally if he wasn't interested? Is that a way to sincerely keep in touch because they genuinely liked you or keep you on the back burner just in case they get lonely some night in the future? If you're not really interested, let me move on already! So confusing.
2007-12-27 10:14:35 · 10 answers · asked by PatientBull 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All depends on the dynamics of your relationship with him. It could be either as his personality and his moral code of ethics are missing in the equation.
If he is texting you while he is dating others - he is got you on the back burner for a safety net. Move on and be respectful of yourself since he won't be doing it
If he is texting you and not dating anybody, he may be testing the waters to see you level of interest
Did you know? Men will get rejected by a woman more often than a woman will get rejected by a man when asking for a date? So women's sexuality holds more power and weight in a relationship.
Good luck and much prayers
2007-12-27 10:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Spicy Song Yung 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume you are friends with this guy since talking on the phone, emails, or text messaging is what friends do. Plus you have not mentioned anything in his text messages that give you the feeling that he is interested in you or that should confuse you.You keep insinuating that maybe you guys have once dated, talked about dating, or are interested in dating or why the reference to being kept on the back burner for some lonely night in the future and letting you move on. This is a situation that only the two of you can resolve by talking face-to-face as soon as possible.
2007-12-27 10:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read what seems like hundreds of situations just like this one here on answers. If anyone really knew the answer to this stuff they'd write a book and be a zillionaire. All you can do is try to make the next play. Flub that one up? Try again. And again. And again. Keep failing (flailing???) until you succeed. This current pattern with this current guy isn't going to work status quo. How to make him trust you enough to open up? How can you communicate what you're thinking without causing him a meltdown psychologically? These are your challenges. I don't have any answers... maybe knowing the questions will help you.
2016-05-27 08:31:43 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I text all the time and is really the way that I keep in contact with my friends because of the hours that I work. It is technology. But if he really likes you he would go out of his way to make the call.
2007-12-27 10:19:19 · answer #4 · answered by luckyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's only on occasion then I would go ahead and move on. I think you should try to ignore him for a while. Maybe not respond to one of his text's messages and respond to the next one. See how he reacts!!! But in the meantime have yourself some fun!! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-12-27 10:22:39 · answer #5 · answered by Karen K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm mixed messages. Give him one last chance to say what he means and if not just stop making an effort... if he wants to he will respond... good luck x
2007-12-27 10:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by Hay-Ho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think you need to figure out how you feel about him. If you like him, start to subtly give him the hint, if not, tell him how you feel and just be nice to him.
2007-12-27 10:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by Skyline 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows? Maybe he is too shy to make a move. Either way, he is wasting your time. Don't bother with him.
2007-12-27 10:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a text like "im laying in my bed half-naked, wanna come over" n see what he says
2007-12-27 10:21:31 · answer #9 · answered by Erica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough one...depends on the guy
2007-12-27 10:18:37 · answer #10 · answered by ima gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋