It's all about your level of matturity. Why do people say that?
2007-12-27 07:49:55 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree, as long as you had safe sex. I disagree with people's right to say what they like. People do have the right to say what they like, and as you've found out, they most certainly do. Just be confident in your choices. You seem like a person who makes them carefully so hold your head high.
People make a big deal about sex. They attach all sorts of negative and artificial conventions and stereotypes. Good for you for seeing through all of that and being your own person.
2007-12-27 07:59:27 · answer #1 · answered by boppin_off_hwy_1 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not a whore for having sex. How old are you? I think the majority of people in high school have sex. Some people say you should wait until you are around 18 or so and some say you have to wait until you are married. I think we each know when we are ready for sex and it is no ones business to get into our life. There are religious fanatics who think it is their place to tell you how to live your life, but we are still a free country and each of us can live as we see fit. So if people are calling you a whore, block them out, do not associate with them, and consider the kind of person they are. Besides the definition of a whore is one who sells her body, and I doubt that describes you. Just be sure you always use good protection remember no birth control is 100% so you always have the chance to get pregnant. That means you need to know your options and which option you will chose if you should get pregnant. Sex is a normal part of life which sooner or later everyone takes part in - there is no reason for anyone to be condeemed because they feelthey are ready for sexual relations.
2007-12-27 08:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kayla S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are not educated enough in sex. Sex is an awesome experience with someone intimately, it also creates life. Sex isn't whorish, if you are with one person, instead of a one night stand and another notch in the bedpost or belt. Sex is based on 2 souls joining together and expressing intimately. You aren't a whore if you have sex. If you and your partner were ready then that is Great!.
Some people take longer to mature about sex, and they need to be more educated, starting with looking at the anatomy in grade 5.
2007-12-27 07:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think your a whore. but u didnt say what age u were? the person/people that said this is just ignorant to ur needs as a 'woman' if you feel ready and that it was the right thing for you to do then its ur decision and no bodies business evnt tho people will butt in and give there thoughts on it ie calling you a whore. at the end of the daii its your life and what they say doesnt matter as long as you were happy with ur decision. xx
2007-12-27 07:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because people have always thought of women as ones who should only have sex in a relationship. It's just how everyone has been taught for centuries.
I am in the same boat as you. I've been called a $lut by my friends for having casual sex. They keeping their blinders on and don't look in the mirror! They can all go f-themselves!
Just be happy with who you are and ignore everyone else's opinions. The only opnion that matters is your own!
2007-12-27 07:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Casie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It seems that ppl think woman that have sex with a mere few ppl there are considered whores or sluts but on the other hand man are found to be studs for sleeping with alot of ppl!! I think it should be the same for both sexes!! Ppl are way jealous of ppl that are happy with what they are doing in life!!
2007-12-27 07:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by one_redneckmom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It really does depend on how many times you have sex and who you have it with. If you have sex with a different guy every month..then they have a right to call you a whore. And if you have sex with your boyfriend 24/7, then agian, you have the right to be called a whore. No affense, but thats NOT what a relationship is about.
2007-12-27 07:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are not a whore for having sex, but it really depends on what you did to be called a whore so I really can't give you an sure answer
2007-12-27 07:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends mainly on your age and how many times you do it. If you are 13 or 14 and screwed your boyfriend a couple of times....WHORE! But if you are that age and only did it once, then you might be a whore unless you regret it and make sure you never do it again until you KNOW YOUR READY!!!! But if you are in your twenties and did your boy/girlfriend once or twice, i think your fine unless you didnt know them. Because if they were a stranger....WHORE!!!
2007-12-27 08:00:00 · answer #9 · answered by Jade 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Remember it's not what people call you it's what you answer too and im just 13 and i learned dat and no i haven't had sex yet
once it's gone it's gone 4eva
That's when u have sex wit toooo many different ppl and too many times
2007-12-27 07:59:03 · answer #10 · answered by -Juss L0VΣly™ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋