we are trying to find ways to help the child cope this is the first time she( the baby) has been away from her mother and we also need to know somethings that will entertain and comfort her
2007-12-27 07:46:33 · 2 answers · asked by lynnluvsbrett 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
One of the characteristics many people with autism share is a need for things to stay the same. They often have great difficulty with transitions and can react violently to them. Is it a possibility for the child and your cousin to stay at the child's home? This will likely lessen the distress for the child as she will be in familiar surroundings. If that's not possible, she should bring as many familiar objects with her to your cousin's house as possible. (Blanket, her own cup, toys, booster seat, etc.) Have her mother make a video of her talking to the child, saying her name, telling her she'll be home soon, etc. and let the little girl watch it as often as she wants. Find out in advance what kinds of things the girl likes. Many autistic children are soothed by music -- have her mother bring over CDs the child enjoys and play them as much as she likes. Again, if it's not possible to stay in the child's home, your cousin should have the little girl visit once or twice before she comes to stay so she will be at least a little bit familiar with the environment. Good luck!
2007-12-27 09:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by aloha.girl59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every child is different, you need to find out their favourite things to do or their favourite objects (i.e. a teddy etc).
You also need to ask the mother if there is anything the child has a problem with or doesnt like.
You will be fine :)
2007-12-27 08:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋