Is it possable to date two men at one time? and be legit about it
2007-12-27 07:27:10 · 16 answers · asked by Clint G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's the deal, Ive been seeing this girl that still has feelings for her ex and they still get together and hang out, and we are completly honest about it, but should I see other people too, she said that she would understand if I did it, nut I really love this girl and I dont want to seem like a dick to her, but on the other hand I need a commited relationship. what do I do?
2007-12-27 07:34:13 · update #1
She and her ex are going to get together for new years should I be worried? I asked her not to kiss him and she said that I didnt have anything to worry about, do I believe her?
2007-12-27 07:41:55 · update #2
of course it is....i had 5 at a time going at one point
2007-12-27 07:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by Stan Gemini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible for anyone to date as many people as they desire at one time, as long as they make it clear to each that they aren't the only one (no need to say how many you are dating, as that isn't relevant).
The issue is if you lie or lead someone to believe you are dating only them, when you are not. Each dating partner should have the right to decide if they are kewl being "one of the" people you are dating, and not just "the one" you are dating.
2007-12-27 15:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd dating two different men. I'm open and honest about it. Both guys know that I'm not only seeing them. And I know that I'm not the only woman that these two men are seeing. As long as there's honesty, it can work.
2007-12-27 15:33:49 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u really love her u need to see what her feelings for that other guy is she should be spending time with you or all three of yall could hang out if she is letting you date other girls she must be cheating on you
do what makes u happy!
2007-12-28 11:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Samantha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know.. Because when you feel the same for two women, your not showing one woman all your affection becuase your still thinking about the other one. When I want my boyfriend to look at me, I want him to think about me and only me, its me on his mind, not other girls. So when you really think about it.. is it really fair to them?
2007-12-27 15:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by ~!Ashley!~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date as many women as you want.
2007-12-27 15:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If they are both fine with it. The women should know about it though.
2007-12-27 15:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
um i have done that before and it was very bad. trust me. if you really care about them then you wouldnt date both of them at the same time. just pick. its not that hard.
2007-12-27 15:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Luna 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can as long as your truthful and honest with everyone else.
2007-12-27 15:33:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lovely J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea...but chances are they'll be dating other men.
2007-12-27 15:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋