2007-12-27 06:29:39 · 13 answers · asked by greenymonster 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to keep busy, pray for strength to get through it and you will eventually. It takes time and there is no quick fix. Try to keep your mind occupied on anything other than your loss. Take the time to grieve if you need to, a good crying jag let's it out and helps to heal faster. Talk to friends, real friends will listen and it helps to vent your feelings. I would also write a letter to my ex and express all my feelings good and bad but i would never send it. Just spilling your guts on paper also helps. Good luck. We have all been there.
2007-12-27 06:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by catehokte1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 16:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is all easier said than done- we've all been there... what worked for me was hanging out with my friends, trying to remember all the bad times in the relationship, what I didn't like about that person, and how in the end I'm better off. Think about why you broke up, and how next time (and there will be a next time!) you won't make the same mistakes, and you won't be with someone who makes the same mistakes as your ex. It's taken me about 6 months to fully get over my ex of 2 years. In the beginning I was given that advice and all I did was dwell on the good things and coulda-woulda-shoulda's- but they get you know where. Eventually you won't feel as sick about it as you do, and you'll start to remember the bad times more than the good. It just takes time. Try and find a friend who won't get sick of you talking about how you feel about the break-up- that can be the best thing too. Okay now I've rambled on:
Hang with friends
Remember the bad times and why it didn't work
Know there's something better out there waiting for you.
"Stop what you're doin
You don't wanna ruin
The chances you got to
Find a new one"
2007-12-27 06:40:42 · answer #3 · answered by nikirollerblades 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! There is no way to fully cope with a break up from a long term relationship. Don't destroy all the things that you have that reminds you of him/her. Because later you will wish you hadnt. I'm sorry to be the one to tell you this but there really is notheing you can do. Just go to the nearest grocery store get yourself a gallon of your fav ice cream and a sh!t load of candy and some good movies and go from there. lol. good luck.
2007-12-27 06:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any breakup is a difficult one but a long term one is twice as painful. Just like no two couples are alike, no two breakups are alike.Hence, it is very difficult to give you some ideas because you did not give any information that such advice can be built on. There is no "one size fits all " type of solution for these sort of problems. My suggestion is to re-write this piece and give some information which may help us help you. In the meantime, please accept my deepest sympathies for the breakup of your romance.Please do not hesitate to make further contact when you can . I wish you the best.
2007-12-27 06:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something that will bring closure
One thing I did was to make a date at a restaurant, let her know where and when, then had the table set for two with a complete meal for two.
Gave the waiter a huge tip and said" Well just in case she should show up--leave this table set up like this till you close."
In this way, you give it your" last shot"
2007-12-27 06:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keeping your self busy it the best thing that i found helpful weather its playing video games or going on this site and just answering questions. also exercise is supposed to help alot find something that you enjoy doing be selfish for a while its ok to do that. do things for other people it will make you feel good about your self
2007-12-27 06:35:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deal with it completely. Feel every emotion ... and truly let them out of your system.
It is going to hurt like hell .. and you get mad and sad and mad again. Let it all out and I promise you one day you will wake up and it will not hurt anymore. You will be ok and you will see that this person was not worth your tears.
How ever long it takes depends on you.
2007-12-27 09:37:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. destroy all belonging any unpleasant memories from your ex
2. get yourself busy from other things ie: go to gym, listen to music
3. surround yourself with family and friends for support.
4. if its a divorce or seperation, additional support group or therapy may require
5. tell yourself there are plenty of fishes in the sea
6. KEEPING A POSITIVE ATTITUDE!!
2007-12-27 06:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you broke up it must have been for a reason.. so concentrate on that reason and that should help you not feel so bad about it.
and if you can maybe try to look around for other guys/girls.
do things to help you not think about the guy/girl.
2007-12-27 06:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋