If a father has many children, then would he be a loving father, if he let the bad ones abuse the good ones?

Question

If the father warns the abusive ones that they will be punished for abusing the good ones, but the bad ones ignore his warnings, what else should the father do, except carry out the punishment in order to protect his good children?

Answer 1

allowing a child to be bad is not loving, it is weak and lazy. Loving does not mean that you always make the child happy. Teaching the child right from wrong is the loving action.

Answer 2

A Good father should punish both the good and the bad every time they are acting out. Good kids often learn bad behavior from siblings.
He should also teach his children how to defend themselves, especially how to deal with being teased and not be affected.
The trouble makers should be sent away to work hard labor and build character, maybe learning goodness along the way, for even a father could not teach all of life's lessons.
A good father would have his children go off and become adults, but never close his doors or open invitation to come home.
He would also keep watch to make sure they had proper education.
Sometimes the bad ones change and learn compassion, other times the good ones slip and forget where they came from.
To dis sallow any teasing or hard play would prevent the children from becoming adults. Over protection leads to adult babies.
Eventually after enough time and warnings when the child is fully accountable punishment is due to fit the terrible mis-behavior of the child's life. Maybe in the form of exile and being (cut off from the family) Even being cut off or exiled when a child shows true evil character is more loving to them than to let them live amongst the family where their evil hearts do not belong and continue to cause pain, because they would not learn what the consequences of their nature is. Nor would it be loving to the rest of the family.
But, the love from a good father never ceases and neither does the offer of forgiveness.

Answer 3

All he would have to do is inform/teach the Good children that Justice and Retribution is as important a part of life as Compassion.

Or that Justice and Retribution are merely a different form of Compassion, if you wanted to make it sound sweeter.

If the kids listen, and assuming they're Good Kids they will, the problem will deal with itself.


Believe me when i say this;

This is the most important lesson you can teach to a Person who is Kind of Heart.

p.s; i follow it quite closely, actually.

I love it when people think i'm going to go down in one hit.

Answer 4

A good parent would punish the bad children in a way that they can see what they are doing is wrong, not send them away to burn for all eternity.

A good parent would also not allow the good children to tease the bad children for being bad.

My kids do this all the time. My yougest hits my oldest. I punish my youngest with time out. My oldest tells my youngest that she is a good kid and I put her in time out for teasing... It happens all the time.

Answer 5

It's even worse if the father completely ignores most of his children, and waits until countless generations of his children have died to tell them about their inheritance. To compound it, the father gives his first 2 children a loaded gun in their toy box and tells them not to play with it, before they learn about right and wrong.

Answer 6

good ingredient that character is available in first with your spouse - and that she has low expectancies. i develop into waiting to respond to the question, till I examine the section I skipped the 1st time. this could have been a very humorous situation in case you hadn't executed the disgusting part of watching somewhat female via a telescope. what's incorrect with you. Then she is a youthful woman, no longer a woman - your mistake.

Answer 7

YEah, but does he punish the bad ones for the rest of their natural lives, or at some point is there some forgiveness?

Answer 8

A loving father will allow his "good" children to learn how to deal with adversity, rather than shielding them from every potentially stressful situation.

Answer 9

punish the kids that are abusing the others
i think thats kind of commen sense

Answer 10

Yes , it is written that if a parent doesn't chastise their child then they don't really love them. A child must learn that there are consequences for, and they are responsible for their actions.