oke..so at the end of last school yr...my bf broke up with me for the 2nd time,"you flirt too much with other guys and it really doesnt seem like yu care about me at all!" is wat he said...i didnt see it as "flirting" i have alot of guy friends...and i kno they dont come to me b/c of my body (cuz im not exactly the most developed person, im not a stick though) so i thought i could trust them as my friends...and i still talk to alot of them...even though nobody i knew last yr in middle school goes to my highschool..but now i actually go out with on of my closest guy friends from last yr...i still kinda have feelings for my first guy..cuz he taught me alot and i was jerk for being mean to him(NOT ON PURPOSE!!!!) and on top of that he moved to NJ so that makes me even more sad when girls say stuff to him on myspace...i cry sometimes when i get off the fone w/ him b/c i think about how much i screwed up, i take a really long time heal...i want to make my nu bf happy! how can i do that?
2007-12-27 05:46:57 · 5 answers · asked by Choji K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
make sure you put out and do whatever he wants. Also, you should look the other way if he decides to mess with other girls. it works for me and my GF! She's the best!
2007-12-27 05:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by Tyronne-osaurus Rex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I'm sure you're learning, relationships are all about good communication. Talk to your new BF about things that have bothered him about other girlfriends in the past so you can make sure to avoid those same problems. Also, encourage him to let you know if something you're doing is bothering him, and vice versa, so you can talk about it and come to a solution instead of just breaking up. Just remember that high school relationships often fail because both parties involved are immature and inexperienced when it comes to relationships, and also because they let their emotions get in the way of properly communicating during an argument. It seems like your ex-BF could have avoided breaking up with you by first bringing what he felt was a problem, your alleged "flirting", to your attention. Clearly you still aren't 100% sure what he was talking about and you don't feel you were flirting with your guy friends. If you ex had come to you and said, "When you do _____, it makes me feel ______," maybe you could have seen his point and tried not to do whatever was bugging him anymore, so it's not all your fault. Just be as open and honest with this new guy as you can and remember that high school is a time for making, and learning from, mistakes. Good luck!
2007-12-27 13:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? How old are you? A REAL boyfriend won't be truly happy until you are older and mature. At your age boys are going to dis you no matter how hard you try.
What is up with all these tinnie boppers wanting to date at such a young age? Go out with your friends and have fun and stop worrying so much about making any one guy happy.
2007-12-27 13:52:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if ur ex bf is rite about ur flirting, dont firt as much. dpnt cause a lot of problems for ur new bf. dont under-estimate ur love between u and ur new bf. that can causse him to break up with u. also, dont ask him if he loves u aor not a lot, bcuz then he'll get sick of it
2007-12-27 13:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by surfer94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you guys have communication and trust, you can do no wrong. just let the relationship BE; you can't MAKE anything happen that's not meant to!
2007-12-27 13:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by [♥]ÿºú-kñºw-whº[♥] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋