My boyfriend was involved in a sserious fight on xmas eve...when I was told about it I went to the hospital expecting to see him with a few cuts n crazes but he was wired up to machines and monitors and the doctors are not sure if he will make it...I dont know what to do....we have had a less than perfect relationship but I dont know what I'd do if he didnt make it??
2007-12-27 05:25:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The relationship has been pretty bad for a while and everyone has told me to leave him as he's no good but I'm so scared of not having him around!
2007-12-27 05:42:35 · update #1
You may soon find out what you'll do without him....
Stick around & see this thru. Abandoning him right now would be a real b*it**ch thing to do.
UNLESS it was an immature stupid fight that was all his fault & that was what you disliked about him before Xmas Eve....
Then you have every right to walk out of the hospital & move on
If he lives, he's not likely to contact you again - he'll know why you left
2007-12-27 05:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray for him. There is enormous power in prayer; it's a proactive effort, and it relieves the feeling of helpless desperation. Nowdays it's easy to be dismissive of things like faith and prayer, but they have stood the test of time throughout human history, and I can think of no better time to familiarize yourself with this. I will do likewise in his behalf.
2007-12-27 13:41:48 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only a couple things you can do besides being there for him...be there for his family and pray for him. He will/would certainly appreciate both. Best wishes.
2007-12-27 13:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bad Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will need to take time to grieve but you will survive. Just think positive and be there for him.
2007-12-27 13:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Meg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there with him and pray, it will help
2007-12-27 13:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by HelpMeHelpYou.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋