i am 13 and i have never been asked out,but guys call me hot. i try to play hard to get ,and dont bug them.i am kind of quiet at times, but other times i am not at all! i never text,call, or email guys; i NEVER would ask a guy out. i like clothes and jewelry , but i also like having fun like racing and playing sports....now that i have told you a little about my self can you tell me why i am not getting asked out?PLEASE ANSWER!
2007-12-27 05:19:59 · 18 answers · asked by Sugarrr. :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, guys your age are very shy in that aspect, even if they don't look like they are, usually couples at your age happen because the girl made the first move on him.
2007-12-27 05:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna get a guy,
You don't have to look like a "10".
Yes, looks ARE what attracts us at first, that is true.
But what's most important is that you make the best of what God gave you
to work-with.
If you are overweight, that will make your pool of potential
guys shrink for sure, so if there is anything you can do to be in healthier shape, that would be a big help. Don't just do it to land a guy, do it because your life may depend on it! You don't wanna die at a young age of a heart attack, or diabetes etc. do you?
BTW I feel that too skinny is just as unattractive as being fat, no matter what women's magazines or hollywood may say. Make sure that you wear sexy, yet not trashy clothes, get your hair and makeup done. Look your best.
Ok, now that you have made the best of your appearance, you need to work on being approachable.
Get involved at Church, hobby related organizations, dance classes, community groups,
Volunteer groups, political organizations etc.
Also practice starting convos with guys wherever you happen to be, starbux, the supermarket, a bookstore, wherever.
When you see a guy you are attracted to, smile at him and look him in the eye.
Be friendly and flirty! Also, take the initiative. Start a conversation with guys. Ask us out on dates too! I've had it happen to me a couple of times and it made my day!
Be proactive!
2007-12-27 13:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by andybosik 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"i never text,call, or email guys"
There is you problem right there. See males are not strangers for another planet. If you want a boy friend have friends who are boys. Work on making social relationships with guys, it does not have to be romantic at all and WOW can it help. Have a question about a guy your romantically interested in ask your guy friends and help them out when and where you can to and your later life will be much more rewarding and simpler.
2007-12-27 13:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by Carl B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
iam not a guy, i am a mother of 2 boys, both older than you are now.
i can only tell you what i went through with them when the were your age.
they really liked girls like you and really wanted to go out with them, but they were scared of being rejected so they never asked. boys your age are still trying to build up their confidence to ask girls out, so they may shy away from it, moreso because you are kinda quiet
because you are quiet, you are not providing an opening to the subject for them to use, they dont know where to start or how to ask you out straight forward like that, they need an excuse to get the conversation going
i hope this helps
2007-12-27 13:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfirelady313 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your 13 and kinda young. Young boys like the whole text email callin thing. They just think you are unavailable. But thats a good thing wait a few years and then have fun. Talk to your folks about it.
2007-12-27 13:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Devdude 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps because you are just more a hott friend instead!
Maybe you broadcast your body
Remember, just because you dont say it aloud doesn't mean you didn't imply it with your body language!
Your 13, you and those little boys can't even drive, yall need to be focusing on school instead!!!!!!
Date when your 16! It's better you can actually go on REAL dates!
2007-12-27 13:25:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but probably because you're not showing any interest in these boys- by being 'hard to get'. Flirt back and let it go from there.
2007-12-27 13:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by touchmybobba 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
could be that you are too young and guys your age are immature. why don't you wait to worry about this till you are say, oh...20 then maybe you would have something to worry about, otherwise just enjoy being a kid and have fun that way
2007-12-27 13:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by ron s 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
because guys are stoopid at that age. stick to your morals, do right by yourself and you will prevail.
if you start acting like a slut you will be called a slut for the rest of high school
2007-12-27 13:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
your not getting asked out because of questions like these! get some confidence and stop worrying about it so much.
2007-12-27 13:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by John 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋