Guys how would you react?

Question

guy how would you react if a gal friend( 7 months older than you) told you she had feelings for you?

(Feelings she tried to kill for the sake of your guys friend ship but the feelings just won't stop. and she need to tell you or she felt like you guys couldn't be friends anymore.)

what if she was crying( trying not to) while she told you?

how would you tell her if you felt the same/different?

Any advice for a girl who about to tell a guy friend face to face Jan 2 2008.

Answer 1

Yeah, go for it. You have to confront these feelings or else spend the rest of your life wondering "what if". This way you can A.) Move on with him or B.) Move on without him.

This relationship has come to a point for you where it has to go one way or the other. The risk you run is losing him as a friend for good or the reward of getting a relationship out of it with a guy you already know a lot about and that you like.

If you get rejected, yes you will feel heartache but when it's over you'll realize you made the right choice and feel better knowing the truth about his feelings. I've gone through it and she rejected. It's no picnic but your mind will be at ease over the agonizing of "does he or doesn't he".

Wish you the best! Good luck!

Answer 2

A tough question to answer by anyone as there are so many ways this can go. Obviously you have made a decision to go through and tell him face to face. There are always two answers to a question, yes and no. Its the pauses of answering the question will tell you how he feels in return. I say go for it, try not to cry as it may back him in the corner and run. Myself I would tell her on the spot if i had feelings for her or not, say it like it is, no confusions later!

Answer 3

Better a girl to a guy than a guy to a girl. Girls can get away with being in tears. I feel exactly the same way atm, but you have the advantage of putting the tears on and falling into his arms, whilst I've just got to stand there awquardly between me and her.

Answer 4

Try to hold back the tears. My female friend did the same thing and I tryed to comfort her and forgot about how she was feeling. He might try to do the same instead of being honest with you. Tell him how you feel without being around the bush. Good luck and hope it turns out ok.

Answer 5

7 months means nothing.
Crying is pretty much a no go, normally means she's trying to emotionally blackmail and I don't go for that. (Unless it actually is a real reason to cry, but that doesn't come close to qualifying)

Just tell him, it'll either work if he likes you that way, or it won't but you will never find out until you try, and anticipation of pain, is worse than the pain its self.

Answer 6

i would say don't cry. guys can get really messed up with a crying girl and you might not get his honest reaction if you do. he will be too busy trying to comfort you and freaking out about what he did to make you cry. other than that just be honest and ready for anything. make sure you tell him that it was important for you to tell him and that you don't expect anything from him.

Answer 7

If I cared about the girl I would be excited. Tell him how u feel. Maybe he feels the same.

Answer 8

I'm not sure how I'd react since that's never happened; in one case in particular I think I'd welcome such an occurrence, but that has almost no chance of ever happening. I have no advice because I'm no expert in this area, but I do sincerely wish you well in this regard.

Answer 9

wow a whole 7 months older? gosh I don't know what I would do, lets see maybe I could cry too and we could have a good cry together about our feelings for things, but then again if he hates you he will not cry to maybe you should wait another 10 years then tell him then, or you idk could just move on

Answer 10

I would tell her if i felt the same or differently.