we've been seeing each, but i dont think exclusively( on his part), which is fine because i was in the mind state that i didnt want a relationship when we met... and he knew that... but i think because i always said that, he tried to hide some of his feelings... so i dont know if i should just tell him on the phone like its no big deal.... but at the same time i want to see him again, and i know once i tell him i am engaged, he wont want to see me again, not really out of anger, but sorta respect for my relationship.... i want to continue our realtionship, but it wont be fair to anyone.. not even me.... plus i really dont know what he wants me, cause im always saying im tired of relationshiips....
2007-12-27 04:22:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a ''WOMAN'' and tell him in person..at least you'll give him some dignity..
2007-12-27 04:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by john w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always important to talk to people in person, especially if you are breaking up with someone. Also, as far as what to tell him, let him know that you don't feel your relationship going anywhere and you would rather remain friends. Remind him that you really didn't want to be in a relationship with him at the start anyway.
2007-12-27 04:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by emmy_lue02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly i've got in no way been married till now so i could take my answer with a pinch of salt. i assume i could ask myself why am I so waiting to be married to this guy or woman. Being with a guy or woman is all reliable and properly yet marriage involves a great deal greater, i could think of. it quite is no longer strictly approximately love yet greater approximately dedication, have confidence and complicated artwork to make 2 people into one. i think of that if any of those is lacking then a marriage is doomed from the beginning up. needless to say, he does not look to have the have confidence and marrying him will no longer make it look magically. i think of you may desire to attend and spot and undemanding, the two to him and to your self. Are you trully waiting to marry this guy or woman? while you're, then provide him the prospect to have confidence you. yet provide your self some standards. Marriage is approximately the two considered one of your desires no longer basically his. you're arranged yet he's not. He has smart motives, I take it, for being frightened. provide him time to hit upon his have confidence, yet make constructive he's truthfully searching for it. If he's making the attempt to beat his fears, then you definately could have faith that ultimately he will and in simple terms wait and spot. Your wedding ceremony day is quickly. If he's making no obvious attempt, although, then the reality may be that he the two intends to wallow in his misery for an particularly long term or he has already desperate you're actually not the only for him in a protracted term courting.
2016-10-09 06:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so lets get this straight you were seeing this guy while broken up, but now you are engaged and back with your first guy , but want to keep seeing the second guy too? sounds a lot like my cheating slut ex wife who was married and sleeping with another guy for like two years, when finally found out she thought she could have us both with no problem...what is wrong with you? make a choice one or the other because you know the old saying you can't have your cake and eat it too
2007-12-27 04:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You say your engaged, but you want to continue your new relationship? If thats the case neither relationship sounds all that great. But to answer your original question, you have to do it in person.
2007-12-27 04:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by erik69311 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him face to face, especially if he has been a decent, respectful person. So........you're tired of relationships? And you've gotten engaged. I doubt if you have a clue what you really want.
2007-12-27 04:30:21 · answer #6 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling him on a phone or texting him means ur a chicken, telling in person is the better way of doing it.
2007-12-27 04:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by Life is a plant still growing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see him in persons...but you seem confused...you need to ask yourselve do you really think you should be engaged ..man idont know just think about it
2007-12-27 04:32:08 · answer #8 · answered by Hello Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In person, it is the respectful thing to do.
2007-12-27 04:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Maalru3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Phone.
2007-12-27 04:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by Puzzled 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋