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No boy has ever shown that he liked me. I have several friends who are boys, but they are all one year younger than me. I am a tomboy and am quick tempered. Could that be part of it? recently I discovered that a boy I thought liked me, only hung out with me because a guy friend of mine asked him to. It hurts a little, you know? well, please answer me. thanks for your time.

P.S. I am in High school. I know, I know, "you have to be patient" but could you give me some different advice?
10 points to the best answer!

2007-12-27 04:20:23 · 9 answers · asked by mayaissocoollike 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I have tons of friends, and people think i'm sweet. by quick temper i mean impatient.

2007-12-27 04:35:44 · update #1

I don't dress like a guy, I just like hanging out, playing sports, that sort of stuff.

2007-12-27 08:00:04 · update #2

9 answers

be sweet be patient
imitate the more famous girls in ur school.....how they dress party...
have a smile for everyone!

if u want a friend u will find none..if u want to be a friend of anybody u will find hundreds..
so make all ur friends.,.offer to do something for that needy person...
.dont do backbiting..telling people bad things when he/she is not around...
do unto others what u will like to recieve from others...

develop a style.....hang around in parties....socialise...
take care...
well read some books osn how to get ur man like things...
develop a dress sense....
dont be a tomboy..be sexy....
be beautifull go to a beauty parlour if u can......
finally be yourselves ......noone likes to be in persons who act like a celebrity....
approach some boys and talk with ur girlfriends by side...being part of a popular group( beautifull and glamourous group helps)....
((if u find none use internet to make some friends..be very carefull in net.....dont reveal ur identity or names.address...and be sure to see other person in webcam before u chat ur heart out......some perverts are there like 50 yrs waiting to chat up young girls ....use it only if u r that desperate....))
lots of love
shawn

2007-12-27 04:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by shawn 5 · 0 1

Being a tomboy is not a problem. Many guys like "sexy" tomboys. The temper may be the core issue. You may have an anger management problem... which is not anything to be embarrassed about as it easily can be worked on. It may indicate deeper problems which are causing the unfocused anger. Talk to a trusted adult, school counselor, or minister. You parent's insurance may cover professional help. Otherwise, you are going to have issues for a long time and not be happy. Luck!

2007-12-27 04:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 1 0

You are on the right track. The first step is to see where you might be able to improve. Perhaps you can learn from your quick temper by learning how to be more understanding; a feminine quality.

You can ask a boyfriend of one of your girlfriends that knows you what they think it is that keeps you from attracting boys.

Other resources are available to you. There are plenty of reading materials available to help girls attract men. I am a man and I have consulted many books to help me, because after being married for ten years, I needed to get back in the game.

Good luck!

2007-12-27 04:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by drd 3 · 0 1

Join the Junior Reserves Officer Training Corp.

2007-12-27 04:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Michael the Psycho 4 · 0 1

Well first work on ur anger. When u are about to be angry then take a deep breath to help u calm down.

Now when you find a guy who u like then flirt with him a little and see how he reacts. If he likes u then he will ask u out .

2007-12-27 04:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by Adam 3 · 1 1

guys can have a hard time with tom boy's. it is difficult for them because they have typical gender roles drilled into their brains from the time they are kids. it is easier for guys if a girl is a typical barbie and make up girl. Guys are more visually stimulated, so if you dress/act like a boy you are giving yourself less opportunity to be noticed as a female.

2007-12-27 04:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by brendan 4 · 0 1

maby its all about hanging with a lot of guys lol boys do get abit scared ......... they wouldnt really go up to a girl who was with a group of guys......... dosent matter if your a tomboy my best mates one and she gets enough guys lol

2007-12-27 04:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

...try to be just a little girly...but just a little...and try making yourself more... noticeable... I don't think you're really that bad or ugly that nobody likes you....

2007-12-27 04:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by anty93 2 · 0 1

do it with a donkey

2007-12-27 04:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by bl0w_f1sh_bl0w 2 · 0 3

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