I have 5months old daughter, I want to raised her in a good ways somebody can advice me what is the right way?

Question

to raised and teach my daughter?

Answer 1

Lots of love and discipline. Letting her know you love her is the most important. The material stuff doesn't really matter too much. Discipline is important, too. Don't let them learn bad habits you have to help them unlearn later. A well behaved child is a real joy.

Answer 2

There is no right way... however, there are some wrong ways.

Your daughter will mimic what you do... so always remember that. If you want her to act like a lady, then you should show her that. If you want her to say please and thank you then make sure you always say those things. If you don't want her to have a temper or get upset over small issues, than you should try and remain calm during the same small issues.

Watch what she eats... eating healthy shouldn't be a hassle, it should be a common practice. Stay away from juice, water and milk is fine... make sure she eats veggies and fruit... whenever possible.

Teach her things every moment of the day. Don't think that the only time she is learning is when you're sitting at the table reading a book. She is learning every second of the day. When you make supper, show her what you're doing and why. When you fold the laundry explain why... Keep the tv turned off and make sure she plays outside.

This one is optional, but fundamental in my life. Jesus Christ is my savior and I live my life in accordance to his will. Blah blah, what it means is that I thank God every day for my blessings, I try to do what is best, follow the 10 commandments and forgive those who hurt me. I try and be selfless and give what I can to those who don't have... and all the while, I praise God for what he has given me. Even if you're not Christian, you can still do some of the things in this paragraph. For me, being selfish is one of the worst things a person can do. If everyone would be a little less selfish, there would be so much more good in the world.

Sorry for the long answer... :)

Answer 3

I dont understand why people are saying u shouldnt ask a question like that that is the silliest thing I ever heard!

U are asking for advice and that is something any GOOD parent parent is able to do with an open mind. Most parents are too closed minded and say I dont wanna hear it. You are smart enought o know what advice is good for your child and what advice is not.

One thing I would like to add to the list of some very good answers on here.. is to take her traveling let her see different places and play with nature outside when she is old enough.

Too many kids are trapped in the house in a zombie state of mind playing with their video games all day long.

I think it is important for children to play in the country side when possible with the trees flowers and big meadows to run in.. camping is another great idea too. Learning abt outside world and animals is the best place to learn self discovery.

Traditions during holidays are important

bi-weekly trips to the library with her own library bag

have mother daughter sleep over parties

and reading books on spirituality and books that show what good morals are etc...

answer all her questions honestly and give and respect her choices with your guidance ofc.

and no matter what anyone says .. you can never hopld your baby too much and there is no age when u should stop! :)

Good luck on your Journey!

Answer 4

Children learn by example. If you get too much money at the bank when making a withdrawal and don't give it back, what does that say. The same if the cashier forgets to get the pop at the bottom of the cart. The way you treat family, friends and even strangers (like giving them the finger when they cut you off in the car) all have a pair of eyes watching you.

Just remember, to act like the person you want your daughter to become and she will.

Answer 5

Start right now building a strong trust/attachment bond with her. Meet all of her physical *and* emotional needs during the first year or two, until she knows that she can trust you & the world around her to be safe & caring.

Then, follow her cues & let her start to explore the world & learn how to meet her own emotional, physical & intellectual needs on her own, under your guidance & supervision. Take little steps & go along with her. Encourage her, teach her - she will trust you as her teacher now, because of the attention & care you gave her when she was a baby & toddler. Let her make little mistakes & learn from them. Lessons learned this way, through logic & natural consequences, are the ones that will truly help her build the ability to make good decisions on her own in future situations.

Two good books to look at, if you can find the time, are 'The Baby Book' by Dr's Sears http://www.amazon.com/Baby-Book-Everything-Revised-Updated/dp/0316778001/ref=pd_bbs_2?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1198775888&sr=8-2 and 'Parenting with Love and Logic' by Foster Cline & Jim Fay http://www.amazon.com/Parenting-Love-Logic-Updated-Expanded/dp/1576839540/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1198775950&sr=1-1

Books are a great place to start, but you've got to follow your heart, too. You know your daughter and, if you spend time with her, you'll get to know her even better. The better you know her, the better you'll know how to teach her as she grows.

Answer 6

There is no right or wrong way to raise YOUR child. I believe in God and I am a very strong christian. I give my child all the information I can and all the tools to make the best choices he possibly can. But ultimately it is up to him (once he is older) to make the right choices. Lead by example. You don't want your child to say curse words, so don't curse. You don't want your child to be mean to others, so don't be mean to her. Give her plenty of love and guidence; always tell her how beautiful she is and how proud you are of her. Let her know that even though she will make mistakes you will always be by her side and love her no matter what.

Answer 7

You have to lead by example. Exercise sound judgement and morals yourself, and your child will learn that way. Discipline is just part of the learning process. Never let the child feel you are equal to them, as you are their Mother. Take up responsibility and always be in control. It is hard, and it will seem like a juggling act at times, but it works as long as you stick your principals and practice good judgment and morals.

Answer 8

teach her to have compassion...for those who have less...teach her to be forgiving...because nobodys perfect...teach her to be wise...so she can help others..teach her it is better to give than receive..the rewards are so much greater..teach that life is the greatest gift of all...if you do that even when you wonder why you ever wanted a child in the first place you will find you have raise(my only in your eyes) one of the greatest people on this earth...i have been blessed with 6 of those

Answer 9

with lots of hugs and kisses and love. Make sure you are not "giving in" to them when they start talking/walking. Have them tell you what they want before you just "give it or do it" for them. when it comes to dicipline (age 2+) time outs are best, but just remember to always keep your cool. If you are as upset as them, walk away and then come back to dicipline. Use your best judgement and you'll be fine. If you have major questions, ask your peds doctor or nurse. They have lots of info to help you. Good Luck!

Answer 10

You need to raise your daughter the way you want her raised. You know what is best for your child and you know right from wrong. Do your best, and everything will be okay.