21 year old woman and 32 year old man?

Question

Your opinions and thoughts on an intimate/romantic relationship between a 21 year woman and 32 year old man? Is the age difference (11) great?

Answer 1

Nothing wrong with that BUT make sure you guys are ON the same page with life styles ie: your maturity/emotional/spiritual level - still have that "connection". There's no point if you guys dont agree with lots of certain things like children, spiritual differences, career, etc...

Communicate at ALL times - nothing is more frustrating if you guys don't share your feelings/opinions with each others, try to support each others as good friends as well and remain loyal at ALL times. Try to be sensitive as well to that person's needs. Good luck!

Answer 2

Absolutely not. If you dig each other and you are both over the age of 18, then there is nothing the law or anyone you know can say about it. Eleven years as two consenting adults isn't that wide of an age gap. It isn't like he is old enough to be your father or you are old enough to be a daughter.

There have been lots of instances where there have been relationships where the partners were at least 20 years apart in age. So don't feel as though you two are being freaks because of it.

Answer 3

Nope, Not At All...I Know PPL wHO aRE Sooooo Happy With An Even Greater Age Difference..... Age Doesnt Matter So Long As Ur Both Legal, Which U R.....Good Luck :D

Answer 4

The age difference is not a big deal as long as you have strong feelings for this man. If he acts as young as you do you won't have any problems. If he acts old, then there will be a problem down the road. He will want to settle down in his older years he will not want to do the things that you want to do. That causes a big problem. Need to think about the age thing.

Answer 5

If it is legal, then no problem. In your case, it is legal. 11 years is a not huge, but in 8 years you will still be in your 20's while he is 40. If you are having fun, who cares? If you are talking about a long term serious relationship, I would think long and hard about it. You are still changing and he is pretty much who he is going to be. If you want to date him fine. Get married? I would not do it, but that is just me. Be prepared for some stares once people find out about the age difference (his buddies will be high fiving him and their wives might not like you too much).

HAVE FUN with it...but don't get too serious.

Answer 6

I think so! Why isnt he with anybody his age? Are most of his relationships with younger girls? In some cases it may work but the age difference may interfere in time. The older the relationship gets the more difference you will notice. Good Luck

Answer 7

I think its perfectly acceptable.
My daughter is nearly 21 and id be ok with it if she started seeing a 32 year old man. It's her choice.
Although i hope she doesnt because i like her current boyfriend.

Answer 8

honestly if you care about each other age is just a number...my fiance is about 8 years older that me so its really not that bad. As long as you love and care about the man a romantic relationship is fine! I think....but that's up to you!

Answer 9

well when that 32 year old man was 21 that woman was 10
but since they are both adults its okay
as long as the 21 yo is mature enough

Answer 10

it dont really matter if both are aware of the age difference and learn to counteract it when things crop up. most important is how 2 go about cherishing their love. for the mature party can lead from it while the young part just submit to his lead?
the mature learning from the young and vice versa.