Pregnant or Paranoid?

Question

I was so stupid Saturday night and got drunk and lost my virginity. He was inside me without a condom less than a minute and did not ejaculate. Now, three day later, I'm feel somewhat queasy and my stomach feels different. I know it could be all in my head (and I'm praying it is) but I'm soo scared I am pregnant or something is just wrong with me now. Is it normal to feel this way after sex? How likely is it that I'm pregnant if he was inside me for such a short time and wasn't even close to ejaculating? Someone tell me I'm just being paranoid!

Answer 1

First of all, Kiddo, you are not stupid. A great number of women who were "saving themselves" stumbled into your state. There are also some statistics out there that say you could be pregnant even though you experienced sex without an ejaculation (This is called cloutus interuptus by the way) Now to answer your question specifically.....GET A PREGNANCY TEST. If you can't afford to go buy one, go to a free clinic and get one free, but for the love of Pete, Girl, paranoia is both a poor way of starting off with either an active sex life or an early pregnancy........By the way, if you are under aged and you are worried about parents finding out about this, don't worry about it, the law says providers cannot tell them unless you want it that way.
P.S. By the way, if you are not pregnant, you are still not a virgin anymore. This DOES NOT make you any less respectable as a person than you were before. Your mom, grandmother and so on ALL had to loose their virginity in order to have children. Just remember from this point on that those wonderful female body parts of yours are tools. Its how we keep our species alive. Use them wisely in the future, and just be careful.
P.S.S....."Feeling yucky" because you are pregnant takes about 4 to 6 weeks at least.....This is generally thought to because by hormone levels changing around to accomodate the changes your body needs to make to carry the baby.
......Ernie

Answer 2

You are being very paranoid. If you did conceive a child from 3 days ago, you would not be feeling any pregnancy symptoms whatsoever. You don't feel queasy until close to the end of the 3rd month. And for the record, no matter how long he was in you, you can still get pregnant without protection and even though he didn't ejaculate, there is still pre-*** that comes out.

Answer 3

Have had sexual intercourse and you have not used any method of birth control.
Have missed one or more periods.
Have your period, but there is a lot less bleeding than usual.
Take birth control pills, but you missed a pill. It is especially risky to miss a pill early in the cycle or pack or to start your new pack a day or two late.
Have other symptoms of early pregnancy. Symptoms include:
Fatigue.
Breast tenderness or enlargement.
Nausea or vomiting.
Increased urination.
Have done a home pregnancy test, and the result was positive.
If you have regular menstrual periods and are sexually active, you can become pregnant, even if you use birth control.

If you think you might be pregnant, do a home pregnancy test. If the result is positive, practice the following good health habits until you see your doctor:

Eat a balanced diet.
Do not smoke.
Do not use alcohol or drugs.
Decrease your caffeine intake to 2 cups of coffee or cola a day.
Do not clean a cat litter box to avoid the risk of toxoplasmosis.
Avoid people who are ill.
Take a vitamin supplement that contains folic acid or a prenatal vitamin.
Even if the pregnancy test is negative, if you continue to have pregnancy symptoms, it is a good idea to see your doctor to confirm the results. Practice good health habits until you see your doctor. Call the doctor or get a test to see but try reading this web site! You may not be if he didnt *** but better safe then sorry!

Answer 4

Well, wait two more weeks since the night you had sex. Take a pregnancy test and then check. If you get your period during the two weeks, then you are NOT pregnant. Just make sure though and take it because you NEVER know. You could be paranoid though because it was in fact your first time.

Answer 5

First of all, it is highly unlike that you would be experiencing pregnancy symptoms only 3 days after having sex. So I wouldn't be too worried about that, especially if he didn't come inside you.

There are so many other things that could be causing the queasiness.

However, you did have unprotected sex so if you feel that you are pregnant it couldn't hurt to take a pregnancy test. Also, you might want to be worried about STD's too...

Answer 6

Most likely you are just being paranoid. There is a slight possibility of being pregnant but it is very small. Figure out when your next period is going to be and look up fertility charts to see if you were very fertile. Because if you were not in your most fertile few days then I wouldn't even worry about it. If you were then just wait for your period to come before you start to worry.

Answer 7

Well, a man does not have to fully ejaculate for semen to be excreted.

I would get tested not only for pregnency, but for stds as well. .....and don't drink anymore if these are the decisions you make when you are. That may sound cruel and mean, but if you're not prego or have any diseases, you've gotten off easy this time. Don't expect that streak of luck to continue forever.

Answer 8

it is normal to feel that way right after sex but no a few dayz latterz. sorry to break it to ya but u iz pregnat. go see a doctor or go get a test just to make sure. and watch out for that missed period
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Answer 9

Sometimes paranoia can make you physically sick. That could be what's happening. Don't panic until you miss your first period but in the meantime stop sweating it and take a pregnancy test.

Answer 10

Calm down just buy a pregnancy test or call your DOC. its confedential, they can take you a pregnancy test and your parents are not going to know as long as they do know your going. Okay?

Then you'll know for sure.