My dad left me when i were 2 because he didnt want to pay for me. Well my boyfriend and me have been arguing and he said your just like your dad i never new him, OH neither did you! he left you to i wonder why he left you! and i cant believe he said it. Why did he say this? To hurt me? Im 14
2007-12-23 23:02:51 · 12 answers · asked by ILoveYouLewis [: 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't have anything to do with him
If it's any consolation my ex won't support my 2 year old and never has, he just washed his hands of her, then made another baby,
She's better of without him and so are you
You will find as you get older that bad parent/s make you a better parent providing you don't get involved with idiots
I'm afraid darling this lad is an idiot, my bet is that he's a spoilt brat,
Move on sweetie you can do better, this is your fathers weakness and fault not yours
Be 14, have some fun and don't try to establish serious boyfriend relationships just yet,
Wait for the one as he will find you
2007-12-23 23:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, your boyfriend is verbally abusive. First you should break up with him. Secondly, you may want to wait alittle longer before you have a boyfriend. 14 is still young to be in a relationship and to know the difference between the good guys and the jerks.
He said this ONLY because at some time you must have told him how much it hurt you that your Dad left you.
2007-12-23 23:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by luteachris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of that jerk. He is trying to make you feel bad about yourself so that he can control you. That is typical of controlling guys. If he treats you like that now, just imagine how badly he would treat you if you were married to him.
Controlling men find a woman's weaknesses and play on them to make the woman feel bad about themselves. This is a very common thing when a guy feels insecure, or wants to be in control of you at all times. This guy will end up being nothing but trouble to you. Find a good guy that will have consideration for your feelings. You deserve much better than this rat!!
2007-12-23 23:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. GET RID OF HIM!!! If my boyfriend ever said that he wouldnt be with me
2. I know how you fell my father left me but i wasnt even born yet. So 16yrs not knowing much about him is hard. And yes probly to hurt you. My boyfriend never said anything like that but my younger brother has and it does hurt. And it still hurts when I see other people with thier fathers/
If you wanna talk just hit me up...k
2007-12-24 00:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by savanna o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although it is true that people say things in anger and it's also true that he's pretty young --- to say something that cruel shows a lack of character. If I were you I would distance myself from this boy. You know you didn't deserve something so cruel. And ask yourself this: would you EVER say anything that cruel to him? If not, why would you deserve to be with someone like him?
2007-12-23 23:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by Laptop Jesus 3.9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waah what a jerk, ditch em. I would find no reason to persue that relationship any further. Sounds like if he's going to throw those types of blows at you, he will dig deeper and get worse. After the holidays, get rid of em.
2007-12-23 23:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Living In Fast Forward 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk and you should move on. At 14 you have no reason to put up with a punk
2007-12-23 23:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Ya Ya Vegas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This boy is verbally abusive , you a smart and sensitive girl from what I am able to understand .
Find someone else ! these are the men that you should stay away from. Good luck .
2007-12-23 23:15:06 · answer #8 · answered by bornfree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said it because he is a stupid child and doesnt know what you have been through. Somehow saying horible things like that make people feel better about themselvs.. I wouldnt take anymore crap from him if i was you.
2007-12-23 23:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by Miss M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is a cruel and spiteful coward.
I know we all get angry, but that definitely verbal abuse, and you need to get OUT ASAP!
He has no idea what you have been through, and he is a disguisting person!
2007-12-23 23:39:41 · answer #10 · answered by Carly M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋