How can i find JESUS, when i have a character like this?

Question

i m promiscuous and adultery
i drink lots of alcohol
i smoke 4 packs of cigerette
i m running for money , money and money
i treat women as sexual objects and that's it
i don't have time to visit church
i don't love anyone
i m selfish and just see my vested interests

BUT I DON"T HARM ANYONE

do you think, i can still find JESUS, if yes, how
and please don't tell me to change my dieshard habits

Answer 1

There is a place in the bible where it suggests Jesus would rather to accept one sinner into heaven rather than 99 believers b/c it is harder to CHANGE your ways than to always have lived a righteous life. It is NEVER too late. Don't forget on the cross, Jesus let the one sinner into heaven for repenting at the very last minute it was more powerful that the sinner changed his ways then someone who always believed. That is what Jesus is all about-Forgiveness.

Answer 2

How can i find JESUS, when i have a character like this?
i m promiscuous and adultery
i drink lots of alcohol
i smoke 4 packs of cigerette
i m running for money , money and money
i treat women as sexual objects and that's it
i don't have time to visit church
i don't love anyone
i m selfish and just see my vested interests

BUT I DON"T HARM ANYONE

do you think, i can still find JESUS, if yes, how
and please don't tell me to change my dieshard habits


GOD BLESS YOU!

Answer 3

Let's assume you're telling the truth:

You drink lots of alcohol and smoke a lot. You'll very possibly end up with lung or liver cancer. Once you get it, you very possibly won't recover so you're going to die painfully. So your health will be ruined.

You view women as objects, so you'll be very frustrated when you can't get enough women, because you don't. Especially when you're physically ill from all that drinking/smoking, and with old age less and less women wll be attracted to you.

You're selfish and have vested interests. Noone really wants anything to do with you. You'll feel depression from your own self-created loneliness.

You don't visit church, but you probably do other things with no spiritual fulfillment, leaving you feeling empty.

You're also promiscuous and like adultery. If you're in a relationship, adultery means you'll still sleep with other women. So your relationship will likely end, causing harm to the woman you're with. Promiscuity will very likely lead to catching variuos STD's, making no woman want you at all even if they are attracted to you. You'll have to resort to prostitutes, placing you at the bottom of society. Plus there's the risk of AIDS- and noone who has AIDS ever thought they'd get it, but they just do.

Many people find Jesus after these type of events occur. It's then they realise that all the habits they valued so much were actually quite shallow and worthless since they led to nowhere, and when that realisation comes, it puts a person in a form of a living hell when the mistake is something that's irreversable.

Answer 4

Either you want to find him or you don't. You don't have to come here asking questions when you already know what you want. But since you asked, all you need to do is ask Jesus to join you on your crazy run through life and He'll be there for you. It's not that hard. It's just a little matter of putting your faith in him. Remember as Jesus told it, the Good Shepherd was always looking to bring the stray sheep home.

Answer 5

Of coarse you can I was 48 when I found Jesus. I had done all that you did plus walk away from 5 children and two wives. I thought if it wasn't fun it was done. But now I know I was wrong and I found a Savior named Jesus Christ. I now have a relationship with all my Children and the Lord has blessed me so. The greatest gift of all was my children were all walking the path of the father and now they see the difference in my life since I let Jesus in my heart. I praise the Lord for all he dose for me, For truly he is worthy to be praised.

Answer 6

OK , I'll not request you to change your dieshard habits ,

You just start saying willfully & with ful of Hope ,

"O God Forgive me for all my sins , no doubt I am a big Sinner",

When you are driving or walking alone or sitting etc:

You 'll notice the difference ,

Answer 7

Live like Jesus did. Adapt some Jesushood "yo"!

Answer 8

Why do you see a need to find Jesus?

You sound like a decent person other than treating wemon poorly.
There is nothing wrong with drinking, and having sex.
It is quite instinctual to seek pleasure, and these 2 things harm noone.
Smoking only harms yourself, and you choose to do this to yourself.
Most people are selfish, it is also instinctual for survival of the self.

Answer 9

You ask for our advice, but you ask us not to tell you to change? Also, you say you hurt no-one, well what about your wife & daughter? Do you really think your behaviour doesn't hurt them?Try thinking only of them when you are tempted to do wrong, and you'll find that it's easier to change.Good luck with you future.

Answer 10

Sounds like you're a troll that's just trying to mock Christians.