I broke up with my ex on 24th Nov and I just saw their pictures dated 6th Dec posted in Friendster. They were very close. There's even a pic in the dressing room. I feel so hurt by that. The thought of her getting so close to my ex is causing all the heartaches u could never imagine.. The thought of them making out etc is killing me. I want to get over this guy and I want to learn how to ignore all these stuffs. Pls help.
2007-12-23 19:16:19 · 24 answers · asked by theng 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I broke up with my ex of 2 years on 24th Nov and I just saw their pictures dated 6th Dec posted in Friendster. They were very close. There's even a pic in the dressing room. I feel so hurt by that. The thought of her getting so close to my ex is causing all the heartaches u could never imagine.. The thought of them making out etc is killing me. I want to get over this guy and I want to learn how to ignore all these stuffs. Pls help.
2007-12-23 20:57:44 · update #1
Stop looking at his friendster...he is your ex.
Woman up and get over it. YES, it will hurt and NO, there isn't much you can do about it. Youe ex was an @ss. Plain and simple. You can't fight crazy...so stop. Worry about you cause he isn't worrying about you anymore.
Stop letting him own your emotions. You can go to the bathroom by yourself right? Then you don't NEED someone. Stop being so whiney and you just might attract a guy who can distract you and maybe turn into a great relationship.
2007-12-23 19:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by emtalex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awaken and smell the roses. There are extra fish interior the sea than purely one. pass to a bowling alley and connect a team. Or a church team on your age team. pass skating the place there are the two men and girls you may meet. however the 1st concern you're able to desire to do is devour and get your capability back. your people do no longer comprehend what to tell you because of the fact they have not adventure you're having. you at the instant are not an entire loser. provide your self extra credit than that. existence is going on no rely what happens and issues gets extra effectual. This ruin up won't be the only one you have in existence. whether it took me approximately 6 men earlier i found the suitable one, so do no longer provide up.
2016-11-24 22:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by saylors 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my ex too and I just heard that he has got a new gf who is very pretty, I know exacly how you feel. I am really hurt too but I usually go and answer other peoples questions to help me keep my mind off of him, I hate being jealos of a girl I have never met!!!! Try to do what I do, block him out of your head with, Movies, music, ansering other peoples questions and just reading a horror book. I hope that soon we will find another guy ond move on, I hope.
2007-12-23 19:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww.. It can be hard but only if u let it! be strong.Think about it...Do u think his crying at home at night? No his moved on and so should u. Go out,relax & spend time with family and friends.Trust me it's just a matter of time when someone u finally like comes around. Motivate ur mind on other things u like. That pain will soon go away. When it finally does u'll set back and smile.
2007-12-23 19:43:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on. Dont go looking for what he is doing, or where he is. You will never get over him if you keep doing this. Yes this is hard to do, but you must if you truly what to get better, and have a good life. Good luck, and you also need to talk with someone, to help with the process.
2007-12-23 19:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Dont open it, it is not legit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeaa me n my ex broke up around nov 6 n he liked a chick who liked him but she got over him.
it was killin me at the time but i just acted like i didnt care now hes making an effort to talk 2 me more n stuff.
but if not u can just hang with other boys n have a girls night out
2007-12-23 19:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm.. stop pitying yourself and get it over with. Read some books and magazines. I enjoy having a new hairdo everytime I am disappointed in my relationships. I buy some good make up and put blush on and lipstick to make me feel good.
2007-12-23 19:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Damsel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... the sad truth is that you won't forget the guy till you meet someone else. That's how it works for us, girls. For now, just try to get rid of thoughts about him, don't look at his profile, don't look at his pictures, that will only hurt you more. If you don't want to just sit and wait, then start going out. It always helps... :)
2007-12-23 19:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by ~MJ~ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is always difficult. You broke up with him for a reason. Remember that reason. It will get better. Stop thinking those thoughts and find yourself a new guy.
2007-12-23 19:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by uuummk73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to realize that you and your former boyfriend had already decided to call it "quits"; hence you are both free to do as you choose. He's made his choice. The best thing for you to do is to put all this behind you and move forward with your life.
2007-12-23 19:22:37 · answer #10 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋