Broke up with my ex of 13 years, 2 sons. Been fighting in court for 3 years for unsupervised visits. in that time i've seen my sons 1.5 hours per week for the last 8 months. She was upset the relationship ended & told C.A.S. i was abusive...NOT TRUE! they didn't check into my history i was guilty just because she said so...i have no criminal record. this is the third Christmas without my boys!
2007-12-23 18:17:36 · 3 answers · asked by chefsugar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Christmas is just a day on the calendar. i celebrated it last week with my daughter. get some counseling and start letting go of your anger -it's only going to hurt your relationship with the children.
2007-12-23 18:20:42 · answer #1 · answered by KitKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try another lawyer or wait till your ex will be reaonable again,sooner or later she must realize the boys need their dad too.....Meanwhile try to stay calm , respectful and patient and with this manner you will make a good impression back in court.Its ridiculous you have been found guilty of abuse without ANY HARD evidence besides hearsay from a vendictive woman,your ex.I quess a female lawyer will find some way better in family-court, goodluck
2007-12-23 18:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by ajal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will probably have to get a good family law attorney, volunteer for a psychological evaluation and get some witnesses to your character.
Whereever you live the courts must be awfully busy... i can't imagine they took your ex's word and gave you supervised visitation.
Maybe you forgot some of the details?
I just hope it works out... maybe you could ask her if you might see the kids for part of christmas? that would be the adult thing to do?
2007-12-23 18:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋