Okay I ahve a five year old brother and a ten year old sister. They annoy me SO much I will just be talking on the phone or soemthing and they will yell from the bathroom "RACHEL GET ME TOILET PAPER" and well I don't want to go in the bathroom while they are sitting on the toilet. At the moment I am on a family vacation staying at my grandparents. Of course they get there way over EVERYTHING its not even funny! So, my brother and sister will be spying on me hitting, kicking me and I get in trouble. I just want to beat my grandma up! She also keeps threatning to take my cell phone away or will pin me and let EVERYONE tickle me. She also ALWAYS locks us out of rooms or shoves us inwhen I was 9 she still tryed to force me into bathes with my sister. She also is very rude she called my sister and I big tubs of lard. What kind of grandma says that? I need help!
How do I deal with:
Grandparents
Siblings
WITHOUT being mean
2007-12-23 17:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well ur siblings will be annoying until they get ur age and realize that they were a pain in the butt, and for your grandma, she grew up in a different time and probably treats you the way she was treated when she was a young girl..
2007-12-23 17:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by Emo Pinyato 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sure sounds like you have a lot to complain about.
Grandma calling you & your sis "tubs of lard" is the worst one though. She has no right to say a thing like that, & it's totally wrong.
Here's the thing Hon. You can't change people, & you have no control over other peoples behaviour. The only person you have any control over is YOU.
So try to think of how YOU interact with your family, & try to think of what you could do to be a more positive influence on those around you.
2007-12-23 17:16:21 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Help your brother and sister when they need help.
Respect your grandma, and don't break any rules that might lead her to take your cell phone away.
Eat healthy food in healthy quantities, and no one will call you a tub of lard.
Love your relatives - you only have a few of them.
2007-12-23 17:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jim knows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kill them with kindness.
It really works.
At every opportunity put yourself out to help them. Be in their face trying to help. Be so sweet that they don't recognize you. Give until it hurts and then give some more.
They will either appreciate the effort and treat you better for it or they will start avoiding you.
Which ever reaction: you win.
You may even find out something about yourself and being joyful. It feels good.
Merry Christmas
2007-12-23 17:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by huehn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try your best to be nice to your siblings they will grow out of being selfish grandma on the other hand is an old woman that won't be around as long as you would like her to be.So cherish every moment that you have with her
2007-12-23 18:10:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't know how to help u cause i never met my grandparents cause they died before i was born and when i was a baby well I'm the youngest but i have twin bro who is older than by 5 mins i know its not much but sometimes it feels like he's 10 years younger than me he just loves to do anything that he knows will annoy me so what i do i just hit him but u cant do that cause ur sis and bro are younger than u so i suggest that u just ignore them if they say something to bother u act as if they didnt even say it i know its hard i've tried it multiple times with my bro and failed but hey who knows u might have better luck than me and i notice that ur name has MCR in it woohooo they're the bestest in the whole entire world I'm listing to them right now as i type
2007-12-23 17:19:05 · answer #7 · answered by priss~killa 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to tolerate your brother and sister help them whenever you can. Be respectful to your elders. You will be old someday.
2007-12-23 17:23:45 · answer #8 · answered by mikk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to speak to your parents about the situation. Your grandmother should definitely not be calling you names.
2007-12-23 17:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋