My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months and have yet to have an arguement. I know awesome right? WRONG, cuz now I fear saying anything that'll remotely start an arguement. Like I've been in abusive and destructive relationships my whole life and he's the first to be my friend first and honestly never degrade me. I love him so much, but now I'm afraid I say something is wrong and it'll come to a major problem. He says the only thing that would split us up is being unfaithful and/orabusing each other. He'd love to see me one day become his wife and he doesn't understand why when we were friends I had no problem saying what I felt. we were friends for a year before we got together. Now I just cry and say I can't tell him cuz I can't lose him. We've been through hell together and we've healed each other's broken hearts now we're loving openly. How do I say something without ruining a great relationship? Or am I just trying to hard to prevent the little arguements and starting big ones?
2007-12-23 16:57:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you love him and he really loves you then you shouldnt be scared of telling him how you feel. sometimes even though its hard to tell the truth it maybe the most important thing to keep a good relationship.
sometimes it is just better to think about the present rather than the future for you can just miss the precious moments you may have now.
hope this helps!
2007-12-23 17:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by whatasunnysmile 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship can not progress to the proper level if there is no communication. You need to alwys be open and honest with him. You are living a lie if you don't tell him how you feel.
2007-12-24 02:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋