ok my moms side and my dads side are both having big parties for christmas
problem:which one do i go to
this thanksgiving was the same problem so me and my cousin came up with a plan i go thanksgiving with my mom and christmas with my dad only my cousin from my moms side just came from the navy boot camp and it would mean alot to her if i went but everybody at my dads side already expects me to go and to make things worse none of my brothers and sister can go!so they will know i had a choice and didnt choose them plus my dads side always gives a lot of presents but this year my parents couldnt buy anything and i dont want to show up without presents and then leave with presents for myself!help!please!
2007-12-23 16:38:01 · 3 answers · asked by ........ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thats a good plan but my dads fam. lives faraway and my moms side is in la and nobady will take me!
2007-12-23 16:47:12 · update #1
your right amanda and everone else too
ive desided to go to my moms side even thought my mom had no money she just bought me a gift and i want to be with her when i open it
2007-12-23 17:14:25 · update #2
why dont you go to christmas with your dads side on christmas eve and stay until 8 pm on christmas night so you can see other side. It happens, there are other family they can visit with too! its not like your leaving them alone and humbumgged
2007-12-23 16:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dilemma is all about what other people want. What do you want? You came up with a plan on how to handle Thanksgiving and Christmas. Why not stick to that plan? Something changed but do you have to change your plan? This is a situation where you can't please everyone. Think about what you want to do and do that. I'm sure your family will understand.
2007-12-24 00:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.. do what is best for you this year.
Your family will survive the decision.
2007-12-24 02:05:17 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋