Like, seriously.
Brother 1: He is the hugest wannabe gangster who does drugs/swears/no job etc.
Brother 2: Fails almost every subject in school/tries to mold himself into someone that others will like more/in a way perverted
Mom: Always sticks up for my youngest brother (2) because he's the 'baby' and I'm normally forgot about because I really don't need any help (both of my brothers have disorders-OCD, ADD, bipolar, one has seizures)...so i always have to fend for myself.
Step-dad-dropped out of school in the fourth grade/only talks about what he likes(which I hate)...but I try to listen
Dad-I only see him once a week...lives 100 miles away
I mean, why must I be put in a family like this...I love most of them (except for brother #1 and maybe 2)...like I'm third in my class/no disorders/no drugs etc.)
You think I could mold them into people I would actually feel comfortable talking to (I got many friends but I want a family too)...so could I?
2007-12-23 16:13:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i think you are a good person, continue to be that way. :)
2007-12-23 16:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by Name Here 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey ,I feel you...
Because you see things intuitively that your loved ones dont or wont see. Your a strong person. Take advantage of your strength in a positive way. I know you will, I can tell !!!!
After reading all your details, I feel inclined to answer your last question.....
If your brothers are younger you could certainly influence them to be clean and someone you could talk to! Maybe not the older siblings. Your Mom loves you all equally (I KNOW)!!!! Your Mom probablly
knows your strong and its BECAUSE of that ,that she pays more attention to the weak who are in more need. When in reallity she should give them tough love so they will learn to depend on themselves like you do!!! Your gonna be fine , just focus on your future.
My mother is 57 and smokes crack.....
She told me a couple years ago......
"I'll never be the Mother that you want me to be, i'll never be the grandmother, to your children, that you want me to be and i'm gonna do drugs till the day i die!!!!!!"
I'm 36 now and i accept her because I love her !! I hate what she does and what she did in the past but the Love is always there!! She's my Mom!!!
2007-12-23 16:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. Sorry, can you go live with your dad? If not, then I guess you'll just have to try and get by with the family god gave you. Just keep your grades up, don't start doing drugs!
This will all pay off someday, you'll see!! You will be the one with the good job, the one everyone wants to be. So just stick to what your doing, and things will go your way someday!
2007-12-23 16:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by kobielnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you cant "mold" anyone into being what you want them to be. They are your family so all you can do is to try and be a good example to them and hopefully they will follow in your footsteps.
2007-12-23 16:20:54 · answer #5 · answered by ManWithThePlan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Except them for who they are. You can't do anything to change them. You can only encourage them, motivated them to want a better life. But no one can chose there family. You just got to love the ones your are with.
2007-12-23 16:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by springful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all families have there probs i dont think anyone has a "normal " family...you just have to love them for who they are.. issues and all...just be thankfull that you turning out a well rounded person despite your family life
2007-12-23 16:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by jamie l 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are a really good person though even though your family is npot like thats don't ever change contionue being like that
2007-12-24 14:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luck, brains.
Pick one. Pick both.
2007-12-23 16:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by Phoenix Quill 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋