I'm not happy with any men that approach me. I find something I don't like about each and every one...even if they are good looking or successful ..but never both at the same time ..
I tend to like guys that could care less about me
Could it because I'm not very happy with my life at the moment ?
2007-12-23 11:49:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am the same way! I always find a problem in every guy but once i give them a chance and start to like them, i start to like the imperfections.
HOWEVER, the guy once he realizes you like him, starts to take advantage of you. its weird. so there are little games and shiznit. ya know? you learn with practice. i hate it but i am taking a break right now. i am going to wait for when i meet someone and i know its right. cuz they say you will know when it is the right person :)
good luck :)
2007-12-23 12:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several things... First, your materialism and values is where I would start. If good looking and successful are your two traits that are required for a relationship, I'm sure you are attracting quality men in your life (as your question suggests). Do you realize that not everyone balls out of control early in their life?
Second, you have low self confidence and like typical women, crave for someone to treat you like crap and in turn treat people who aren't good looking and/or rich like crap.
2007-12-23 11:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Chuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think your unhappiness has a lot to do with your attitude.
You are judging men just by sight, placing them in a box to dislike. Why not just ignore them. Your judgment is not healthy for your own well being. I think you have a lot of anger
in yourself for whatever reason. But judging a whole group of people for acts committed by a minority is not good.
2007-12-23 11:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by jimmiv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its perfectly natural to feel this way. This is because you are a woman, period. Women are attracted to unavailable men who really don't "care" about certain women or their feelings. You see, women are competitive in nature; they seek a man who will present challenges. This is entertaining and certainly not boring. Nice guys, or gentlemen who try to kiss up to you just don't present any challenges since they establish you as the prize and are available at the snap of your fingers; they seek your approval, and that is a MAJOR turn-off to women. Your life is fine; don't blame this on anything, like I said, its perfectly natural and this happens to EVERY woman, and I do mean that. Cheers!
2007-12-23 11:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
have u explored the possibility that you could be a lesbian? try this: would you rather look at a naked man or a naked woman? ur answer will give you a hint about ur sexual preference. either way, it's normal, believe me. Go whereever ur happy!
2007-12-23 11:54:06 · answer #5 · answered by Banjo R 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a self esteem issue why not try dating someone who likes you for you . Leave the SOB's who don't care for you alone
2007-12-23 11:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by big nickel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might be gay or just not happy with yourself at the moment.
2007-12-23 11:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by Eric S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't ask me why but you can't have what you want, but there's always an over abundance of what you don't want. your not very happy because you have not ever met me
2007-12-23 11:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by dinos23381 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeap, so you don't feel like you deserve anyone that's going to treat you well. It's like you're punishing yourself.
2007-12-23 11:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It does sound a bit self destructive, doesn't it?
As they say, love yourself first, then deal witht he rest.
2007-12-23 11:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋