Omg the second time!?

Question

my bf came over a few minutes ago and said if we could talk privately. i said sure but i doubted that cause our little brothers are there(he said he had to bring his little brother to keep an eye on him to keep him from selling pics of him naked lol) so we went to the kitchen since the boys were in the family room watching tv. He said he needed to get something from his car and went outside. while he was gone i decided to check on our brothers and discovered his bro was gone i was like OMG not again! so i went to several rooms in my house and my bf came back and helped me look for his bro we found him in my room looking in my dresser taking out my bras I WAS SO EMBARASSED and so i said you both have to go NOW! and so he took his brother i showed him to the door his brother ran to the car and then my bf tried to kissme. i was like dont even try! he left and i slammed the door was i too harsh?

Answer 1

Ya- - a little... It was not him looking in your drawers.

Answer 2

I can understand that you might have been a bit flustered, but your bf had nothing to do with the intrusion into your unmentionables! Cut the poor guy some slack! You can be embarassed if you want, but there's really no need to be. Little brothers do these sorts of things. Laugh it off, call the bf and apologize for overreacting, and hope that he's not taking it out too harshly on the poor little kid with the natural curiosity (who might only need a refresher course on minding his own business and respecting others' privacy, especially in other peoples' homes!).

Answer 3

Yes you were way too harsh. What did your bf do that was wrong, and how wrong was it for what his little brother do. Granted he should not be snooping in other people's house. However, I assume he is pretty young is his brother has to watch him. He was showing natural curiosity so you could have explained to him he shouldn't have been looking in your drawers. You could have explained something about your underwear and let it go at that. There was no need to make a big event of this.

Answer 4

a bit flustered, but your bf had nothing to do with the intrusion into your unmentionables! Cut the poor guy some slack! You can be embarassed if you want, but there's really no need to be. Little brothers do these sorts of things. Laugh it off, call the bf and apologize for overreacting, and hope that he's not taking it out too harshly on the poor little kid with the natural curiosity (who might only need a refresher course on minding his own business and respecting others' privacy, especially in other peoples' homes!).

Answer 5

I would say so. He can't really control his little brother's actions and it's not directly yoru boyriends fault. If the child has problems like such as looking at your undergarments and trying to sell nude pictures, he should not be left alone. I would call your boyfriend up and apologize and say you were just very embarrassed. Eventhough this has happened a second time it is still a little harsh. Unless your boyfriend was going along with his little brother and laughing. But you didn't say he did that so I would say you are way to harsh.

Answer 6

it's not directly yoru boyriends fault. If the child has problems like such as looking at your undergarments and trying to sell nude pictures, he should not be left alone. I would call your boyfriend up and apologize and say you were just very embarrassed. Eventhough this has happened a second time it is still a little harsh. Unless your boyfriend was going along with his little brother and laughing. But you didn't say he did that so I would say you are way to harsh.

Answer 7

well I'm sure it didn't feel like you were being too harsh at the time, and I've been there before! Its SO embarrassing! To be honest, you might not have been that harsh, just don't break up with him for it! It's true that it wasn't his fault, but he really shouldn't bring his brother if he's going to be out of control. But you might have been a tad harsh.

Answer 8

Yes, I think you were too harsh. It's not your bf's fault that he has a crazy little brother. It was the little brother that was bad. You should have been mad at him, not at your boyfriend. I would have like slapped the little kid! :) You should call your bf and apologize for being so rude. He just tried to kiss you because he felt bad for what his little brother did and he wanted to make you feel better.
Good luck!

Answer 9

I wouldn't have reacted so harshly to my boyfriend. He was just tryin' to give you a kiss before he left. He was probably sorry that his little brother went rifling through your stuff too. Plus, why are you embarrassed of your bras anyway? He could go to a department store and see the same thing, and the people at the dept store aren't going to kick him out either. They're just bras, lol.

... but I understand. You felt violated and didn't want some little creep looking through your stuff. I definitely don't blame you there. I hope your boyfriend understands. I've over reacted my fair share of times so I would be a hypocrite to give any kind of lecture.

Answer 10

Yes I think you were harsh, I understand you were embarrassed and that is why you acted like that. But I think you made the situation worse by your behaviour. All will be well though, no earth-shattering damage has been done.

I'm impressed with the number of responses you are receiving!! Never seen that many before! Was at 102 when I answered...

Answer 11

You were just flustered and overreacted to the situation. I'm sure your boyfriend will understand. You got embarrassed that little brother was checking out your undergarments and freaked. If your boyfriend is a good one he'll understand and this will be water under the bridge in a couple of days. If anything, you two should get a good laugh out of this.