Where were you and what was it like?
2007-12-23 10:52:14 · 114 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
21 and still a virgin
2007-12-23 10:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mzee 3 · 24⤊ 7⤋
What is the lesson we can learn from this odd question?
To myself is this:
1) Morality still counts.
2) Sex is great, but a) it has to be to the right person (in this case to your spouse).
3) It should happen on the right time and on the right place. Under a tree or on the beach, places like that are not the right place.
4) If we take a poll from this tread alone it indicates that the great majority testified they have regretted. That means something.
5) Think about: if you are proud that you had sex with a girl of 15 years old and she was virgin, what that means? A great pleasure (maybe not) that lasted for 1 night. But it could have brought consequences for the rest of your life. The question should be, was it really worthy? To myself the answer is NO.
6) But I love her? Your certainly loved her intimation alright, but life is more than that. The consequences can be too great.
7) I will marry her. Will you? She went with you, what will stop her to go with somebody else after you had married her? Can you see what I am trying to conclude?
8) Some of you may turn to me and say: isn't of your business. I admit isn't of my business, but I am bringing this up for your own good and I am not being paid for. That means I am doing in act of pure discernment to serve my community.
9) If I didn't make sense I apologise.
2007-12-23 13:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by mades 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-24 20:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by xbeautifulmarx 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-12-23 12:54:22 · answer #4 · answered by MARIE S 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2007-12-23 11:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by sam d 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I was 17 and a half, it was Christmas night & I had just finished secondary school. It was my boyfriend's first time too, and it was lovely... No regrets. Many of my friends started at 15 or 16 and had bad experiences at parties or wherever, unplanned pregnancies etc. Glad I waited a bit longer, but I think the time was right. My boyfriend and I stayed together for another year and a half after that, but then broke up while we were both at University.
2007-12-27 00:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by Duchess of New Town 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2007-12-23 11:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by big_ynz 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
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2007-12-23 11:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
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2007-12-23 11:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by lrfoster7 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋
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2007-12-23 11:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 4⤋
i was 19...
on out christmas break in college, we had this party and every1 who went to the party went home 2days later.
So we went 2 a club which that night did not serve alcohol and it was dancing everything....the last song s whre like...really romantic and i was dancing with my bf and after...since i packed all my stuff cuz we where going home togethr....it ws like 9:45 at night anbd we were 2 tired 2 drive home..we checked into a really nice hotel and it happened!!! I had protection...i had a feeling it would happen
2007-12-23 11:11:46 · answer #11 · answered by SLA 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋