Alright well. My girlfriend's usually very very modest.
Sex is definantly not her top priority O_o. I know for a fact that, she's a virgin like me, and she's actually dumped guys, who wanted sex with her.
However, we've been together for a year or so now, and we both want to marry soon. But today was very odd.
I'm currently in England right now, and was on Messenger. She came on, and she was extremely strange O_o. I was quite shocked by this and I tested her for information, and she told me things, only we would know O_o.
She then was asking for me to talk dirty to her, and to moan sexually. Initially I kinda refused (no i'm not gay or frigid), as I didn't really expect this from her and was kinda embarassed, she then lured me back in with odd sweet talk O_o.
I guess what's really weird here, is that she told me she only wanted to have sex when she was married, or engaged, as she didn't want men running off once they took her virginity...
was she horny O_o?
2007-12-23 10:35:14 · 25 answers · asked by -.-Chris-.- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not a doctor, but yep. I bet she was.
2007-12-23 10:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by Glitteroid 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
short answer yes.
Long answer:
Sex is one of the primoldial elements of all animals including humans. It is an instinc. No one has to teach you about sex for you to want it at a certain age. It is the same as anger, fear, the need for company etc etc. Not wanting to have sex or delaying sex until a specific date is actually an unatural act. I didn't say it is wrong, just not natural. People who wait do so for many reasons like what your girlfriend believe in making sure the guy will saty etc etc. Other do it for religious reason and other for cultural rreasons. Some are valid reason some are a bunch of cra p if you ask me. Regardless the reason it fights human nature. You can figth human nature all you want but in the end you will loose. That night that your girlfriend IM you she lost. I think she is lucky you where not there physically or else she would had not made it to marriage.
Look at it this way. Sex is like breathing and eating albeit you don't need it as often. Think of breathing for example. You need to breath pretty much constantly. Eating you do less often. You can go several days without eating but in the end you will eat. Sex is the same. you can go without a long time but like eating ad breathing the urge will be there.
The good thing about this whole experience is that now you know she thinks you are the right guy. You are special to her. So special that she was willing to yield to her desires and forget about her own promise.
2007-12-23 10:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL, that's hilarious. I thought you were gonna say you were shy about the whole thing but then you talk about rubbing her vag. Nice. Anyway, if you want her to feel good, start off slowly. Don't just go straight to the vag. Lol. She wants to make it last. Rub two of your fingers down her arm. To her sides. Then down her legs. Gently. Give her goosebumps. Don't ever stop moving your hands. Rub them all around her body and legs. Gently. And just use the tip of your fingers. Then just open her legs for her. Keep rubbing around her body while getting closer and closer to the vagina. Take off from there. Lol.
2016-05-26 01:38:10 · answer #3 · answered by raguel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is your problem. So you not ever get horny. She is going through a time where she is horny so help her. Obviously you are not going to have sex when you are in different countries, but that doesn't mean you can't do things to help each other have some sexual relief.
2007-12-23 10:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by Kayla S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, I think maybe she was acting. Maybe she was testing you to see if you were only marrying her for sex and then dump her after, or maybe she wanted to see if you would still love her if she acted differently sometimes. That's a lot of maybe's but that's all i can think of.
2007-12-23 10:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have found a girl worth looking after.
2007-12-23 10:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's is just trying to let you know how good it will be when you are married. She may also be trying to get sexual gratification for you and herself. ie Cyber Sex. Go for it, she loves you, have fun.
2007-12-23 10:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by Doug 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course she was..it is a natural thing that happens to everybody..Just because she wants to wait doesnt mean that she has no sexual desiers what so ever until a specific date and time (exp:honeymoon)
2007-12-23 10:57:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when I read your question I thought she was drunk.I mean really really drunk.Dru ck enough to have sex. Then I thought some and I decided that ...... she was probably testing you to see if u know that she doesn't want to have s e x.Well that's just what I think about it.
2007-12-23 10:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lady bug 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she might have been but then again she might have been testing you to see what you will do cause i have done that to my husband and we have been together for 3 years now
2007-12-23 10:40:59 · answer #10 · answered by mz.koffee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like a personal issue
2007-12-23 10:40:16 · answer #11 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋