I like a girl who I know her for 2 months. Finally I decided to talk to her about my feeling. I said that I like her and I want to know her better, but she said that right now she doesn’t want relationship and she want to be single and be with her friends.(after she broke up with her bf after 3 years.) she said we can still be friends and have fun. At the end of our conversation, she hugged me and leaved me alone...do I have any chance I like her too much. What I have to do? I like her?
2007-12-23 10:33:50 · 7 answers · asked by M R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
First thing, my friend, put the past behind you and pretend like that incident never happened. These things can completely destroy confidence. You want to act like you don't need her anymore. Act as if you could care less about you two being together. Being unpredictable is the trick. Call her up sometime and ask her if she wants to hang out, do your best to keep yourself from sounding desperate. Bring a good friend of yours and tell her to bring a pal as well. This will help her to let her guard down, and be willing to do new things. While out at wherever you go to, talk to her friend (ugly or hot doesn't matter) more than you actually talk to the girl you like. This will drive her crazy. You'll notice her getting more attracted to you. Continue focusing on the other girl. If you can, get her number and pretend interested in her. After the night of fun, go home sleep, try to forget the girl you like. Wait a day. Then the following day, the girl your in love with will call you and ask to hang out. Tell her you can't because your busy. Then hang up, 15 minutes later call her and tell her your plans changed and that you can hang out. She should be all yours by then.
The physic secret of talking to her friend is gauranteed to work. The tricks working behind it is number one, jealousy. You also hint that your popular by bringing a friend along, without saying it. Her friend will probably like you a lot, and definitely speak highly of you, thus making ur chick attracted. Feel free to ask me any questions you want.
2007-12-23 10:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by fall3n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a psychic, you need someone with life experience and common sense. The number of psychics with these qualities are just about proportionate to any other group.
What you have to do is be her friend. You have to work within the parameters that she's set for you. If you don't you're only going to alienate her and she'll pull away.
This isn't easy - it's very hard to have a friendship where one person is romantically attracted and the other isn't. Chances are you're not going to be anything but a friend - it'll be up to you then to decide if that's something you can live with.
2007-12-23 18:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Zimmia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly like her, and truly wish to be her friend, then you must respect her feelings. She is not ready to be tied down to a relationship, not to you, or to anyone else, she just ended a 3 year relationship, and she needs her space right now. The best thing you can do if you like her is to be respectful of her feelings and be a good friend to her, and leave it at that. If you show her that you respect her, and don't pressure her, then maybe her feelings toward you will change someday. In the meantime, you should go out and meet other girls to date, maybe you will find someone else to like, and maybe you will be able to enjoy a good relationship with someone who wants to be with you too. Good luck...
2007-12-23 18:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you need a psychic to answer the question?
...Are you looking for a tarot card reading on the matter?
2007-12-23 18:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a psychic, but I advise you to be friends with her.
Chill. It will all work out as it is supposed to.
2007-12-23 19:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by batgirl2good 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honor her wishes - be her friend for now. Build on it later.
2007-12-23 19:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
psychics - meh
do yourself a favor, get into conciliing you've got anxiety issues.
and no. she told you she wants to be FRIENDS there is no ******* in Friends
2007-12-23 18:38:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tom 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋