SO embarassing?

Question

i was at my bf's house with my little brother and my bf's little brother(lets call him joey) answered the door and he said that my bf was in the shower. I said ok well we will wait in the living room. Then my little brother and joey went upstairs to joeys room and i really didn't care since joey and my little brother play togther a lot. Then I hear my bf scream so i ran upstairs and discover joey with a camera taking pics of my bf in the shower and my little brother laughing his head off behind joey. My bf seemed really mad at me after that so we left. What should I do?

he just called and he said that he's sorry that he acted the way he did and that he wanted to make sure that I was not getting pics from his little brother who is selling them to random girls.lol.

Answer 1

You need to talk to your little brother and explain to him the seriousness and immaturity of his actions. I think you should tell your parents; if not, tell him that you will not bring him anywhere else with you unless he behaves! Have him apologize to your boyfriend- I'm sure he'll undertand!

Answer 2

Your boyfriend probably wasn't mad at you. You really didn't do anything and your brother was just laughing on the sidelines. He was probably embarrassed and didn't know what to do or say so he reacted by getting mad.

My advice? Find a time when the situation has cooled off and talk to him (face to face) and privately. Tell him you're sorry your brother was a part of that. Allow him to speak, give it closure, and then don't bring it up again.

It's important you talk to him about it or there will be an akwardness in your relationship.

Answer 3

Call, or visit, and tell your bf you had no idea what brother was doing and that you won't be leaving your brother alone unsupervised at the house again. Ask your parents to talk to your brother about how inappropriate his actions (and those of his friend) were. They may think your brother should do his own apologizing, I do.

Answer 4

Just call him and apologize for what happened. Kids will be kids after all. He sounds like he went a little overboard about this. Just tell him the truth. You waited downstairs because you came over to visit and the boys went to play. It's not like you told them to go take naked pics of him. If he cares about you then he should be understanding. Best of luck and happy holidays!

Answer 5

I would just apologize to your boyfriend, and don't bring your little brother next time. Just tell him you will never bring your lil brother again, and hopefully he isn't mad at you, I think he would understand since like it wasn't you doing it. He's probably just imbarresed and doesn't want to be with anybody right now. I would call him instead of going over to his house! Hope I helped!♥♥

Answer 6

call and try to appoligise or even go in person. if he refuses to speak to you, send him a letter. im 98% sure he'll read it and hear you out. if he dosent want to respond back at least you know he heard you side of the story.

Answer 7

oh he thaught u have something to do with it? thats funny! hes immature and a dork.. let him be.. otherwise if he doesnt believe on what u have to say over this funny incident, u wil have more problem with him , about other things,, so let him go

Answer 8

wait a day than call him and ask him if everything is okay. having the day inbetween will help him regroup.

Answer 9

Have your brother apologize.

Answer 10

dont worry about it.....u know that u didnt do it and later on ur bf will trust u enough!......trust me....i have been through somehting like that!