The guy I already went on a date with is very interested in me and wants to go out again after he's back from his trip of two weeks...I'm not that sure I like him in that way, it all feels a lot more friendish for me I guess.. However, I'm very new to dating and have pretty much no such experience at all but this guy I've met a couple of times and have flirted with asked me out. The thing is I'm more into him than to the guy I already went on a date with. I'm just wondering is it terribly wrong to go out on a date with someone else when you kind of have a second date planned with another guy...
2007-12-23 10:03:59 · 18 answers · asked by the.golden 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with it, as long as you are honest and upfront to both of them. Tell them you just want to get to know them as friends. Tell them you are going out with someone else as friends too and you want to get to know them slowly. My friend dated 3 guys at once, they all knew about it. She was honest. It is up to them to see if they want to date someone who is dating someone else, or just go out on friendly outings with them.
It is best to really get to know them as friends first. Don't commit to something you are not ready for. Take it slow and you will really know more of what you are looking for in a guy.
Merry Christmas.
2007-12-23 10:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asked out, then he should pay. For the first couple of dates. By then you should feel comfortable enough together to mention these matters. In this day and age it is only right that you should contribute towards your dates after that. But if I was the girl that had been asked out on an early date and the guy didn't pay, then I would just walk off !
2016-05-26 01:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by lavera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You went on a date with the first guy... you didn't marry him, you don't even have a date set for the second time out with him. Go on a date with the other guy and take it from there. I think there is still a difference between a committed relationship and a date.
2007-12-23 10:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy who asked you out that you want to go on a date with him as a friend and them after see which one you like better.
2007-12-23 10:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by Katelynn P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI SWEETIE! BEEN IN THAT SITUATION MYSELF MANY YEARS AGO. I'D SAY HONESTY IS THE BEST. TELL THE GUY YOU ALREADY WENT OUT WITH THAT RIGHT NOW, YOU'RE FEELING FOR HIM ARE OF FRIENDSHIP ONLY AND THAT YOU ENJOY YOUR TIME WITH HIM, BUT RIGHT NOW YOU EOULD LIKE TO PURSUE OTHER POSSIBILITIES FOR OTHER RELATIONSHIPS AND THAT YOU WOULD REALLY LIKE TO REMAIN FRIENDS WITH HIM, BUT YOU HAVE AN INTEREST IN SOMEONE ELSE AT THIS TIME AND WOULD HOPE THAT YOUR FRIENDSHIP IS STRONG ENOUGH TO ALLOW YOU TO MEET OTHER PEOPLE. YOU KNOW IT'S HARD TO TELL A PERSON THAT BUT BECAUSE YOU WENT OUT ON A DATE THAT DOESN'T MEAN YOU SHOULD FEEL GUILTY ABOUT ANYTHING. TRY IT DEAR, SEE WHAT HAPPENS
2007-12-23 10:20:59 · answer #5 · answered by dibbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's okay to go out with the guy number 2. Sounds like you have more chemistry with him and if that's true just cancel your second date with guy number 1. It's okay, as long as your honest with him and say you like him more as a friend. Everyone gets rejected in the game of love, it's expected and it's part of the process.
2007-12-23 10:08:31 · answer #6 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's a problem with that. You date so you can meet the person you want to marry. If you're only allowed to talk to one person at a time, how could you possibly meet enough people to know what you're looking for?
2007-12-23 10:08:58 · answer #7 · answered by catalyst 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating is dating....you're not in a relationship with either...so there's no harm. That's why it's called dating, going out on dates...you have to see who you're more compatable with. Don't feel so guilty.
2007-12-23 10:08:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy of 2 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
NO....it's WHY we date. One date surely doesn't mean he has "dibs" on you ! I know you don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but, it's your life. If you don;'t go out with this other guy you are interested in, you will always wonder "what if" ?
2007-12-23 10:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're not interested in someone you shouldn't be going out with them. Go out with people that interest you.
2007-12-23 10:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by Digital Age 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋