okay my boyfriend and i have only been dating for liike a month. he moved here from virginia. in virginia he had a bestfriend thats a girl. they liked eachother at one point when he still lived in virginia. hes goin back to virgina for like a week to see everyone. and im scared he going to start to like this girl again. i talked to him about it and he said there just friends.. but im still scared.
should i be?
2007-12-23 09:28:07 · 26 answers · asked by Kayla J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not going to lie, if I were you I'd be scared too. But if you and him are together then you should trust him. You should be happy that he's only going to be there for a week. =]
2007-12-23 09:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by αℓωαчs и ƒσяєvєя 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's YOUR boyfriend you shouldn't be afraid of anything. Secondly, he doesn't even live in Virginia anymore and by the way you've worded your paragraph, he's young like you.. and still lives with his mother - so he's not going to spontaniously run back to Virginia on a whim and never return anytime soon. Relax.
2007-12-23 09:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by ♪♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are all about trust they are built upon them. If you can't trust him then it will never work between you. If you really know him as a person and if he treats you good and cares for you. The odds are he won't do any thing to mess up what he has for you. Don't forget he could never be with that girl if he lives around you. He's only visiting.
2007-12-23 09:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by "Foolishness" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural to be a little apprehensive, but worrying is really pointless because there's nothing you can do about it one way or the other. Try to trust what you have together, and trust the qualities that you have to offer. There's a reason why he's with you...believe in that. Happy Holidays.
2007-12-23 09:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know Kayla, you can live your life always being paranoid about what the other person is doing behind your back, or you can trust people. Most people are trustworthy, and you should give them the benefit of the doubt until they prove you wrong.
Why would you not want him to see old friends, girl or guy.. they are a part of who he is, and I'm sure he must miss them.
2007-12-23 09:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if hes only going back for like a week then it would be stupid for him to start something, so if he does then you know hes a stupid guy and should find someone else.haha, but really a month is not that long so i cant imagine you should be that worried, the fuzzy feelings probably havent faded and hes probably still gaga over you, if not then its not like you lost the love of your life
2007-12-23 09:34:25 · answer #6 · answered by If I Could....I would 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. if you're scared he's going to like a friend of his, then you clearly aren't confident in your relationship or in him. being a worrier is not a good thing unless you have a good reason to believe that he really is interested in this person. just leave it alone and stop worrying. if it turns out that he does start liking this person again, then your relationship wasn't strong enough in the first place.
2007-12-23 09:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by parttime.misanthropist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm no you shouldn't be scared. It's just for a week, not hardly enough time, and besides, that would mean he would have to have a long distance relationship. AT your young age, I just don't see him desiring a long distance relationship.
2007-12-23 09:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by Scooter_The_Squirrels_Wifey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah there is always space to worry, BUT if he truly cares for you then it wouldnt happen! and there is no way of knowing, but what happens in the dark will always come into the light. just be patient, i know it is hard, but that is all you can do. ive liked plenty of my guy friends and now i cant look at them like that cause its weird. keep your head up. love.
2007-12-23 09:33:40 · answer #9 · answered by a lady capricorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to TRUST him or you have a false relationship. If there is not trust, security then there is NOTHING...Believe him until you feel he is deceiving you. Which might never happen... So relax and let him go see his old friends and family.. Have faith in your relationship with him...
2007-12-23 09:34:51 · answer #10 · answered by Bling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋