Nervous about starting my new job. Any advice?

Question

I'm just out of university and have managed to get myself a good job in an office that I start on 2nd January.
Only problem is that I can't stop worrying about it - will I be able to do it? will they like me? what if I hate it?

Getting the job was bad enough - I had 3 unsuccessful interviews for other jobs so my confidence was at an all time low. On my 4th interview I got the job - but I still have such low self-esteem even though someone finally said yes.

Answer 1

they wouldnt have offered you the job if you are completely incompetent. everybody gets nervous before starting a new job, it's normal

Answer 2

Don't worry, they clearly saw something that they liked in you being that they gave you the job. Offices usually have alot of politics, just lay low, don't get involved with any gossip, smile, be friendly, and most importantly be yourself.

As far as the interviews, don't worry, you can't expect for every interview to be a "score". In an interview always keep it professional and don't be afraid to show a little of your personality. Someone that has been interviewing a whole bunch of people is only going to remember the ones that stick out regardless of their qualifications. Your experiences count, don't get me wrong, but there must be a chemistry there. Body language is a big thing, don't slouch, make sure you always are maintaining eye-contact, don't cross your arms, be relaxed and real, don't act like you think they would want you to because you can usually tell. You will be fine.

Best Wishes!

Answer 3

Well done for getting the job!!
Do not under estimate ureself !! If u were not suitable for this job do u think u would have been interviewed a 2nd time let alone 3 & 4 ?
U walk in there on the 2nd and do a bloody good 1st days work.. U show them! Congrats again..
Enjoy Christmas, and turn all worrying into excitement..

Answer 4

NUmber 1 - Make sure you ask a lot of questions to your boss.

Number 2 and very important - Those that in the office would like to see you be successful. So, I would try to learn from them. They will give their advice to you.

Number 3 - If they are going to put you with someone, ask for someone who is the best or many of the best. They will train you very well.

Hey, when I took my current job, I was nervous also. But, they welcomed me with open arms and I asked my co-workers a lot of questions, they helped me so much. Now, after almost 2 years at this job, I am one of the top performers and the "rookies" have come up to me for advice.

Now, if you do not like and you decide to leave, leave on your own terms. Everyone will understand.

Will they all like you, answer NO! Their is always one bad apple.

Answer 5

Everyone has to start somewhere, we have all had bad interviews and know how you feel, just make sure you listen to instructions for the job and try to smile - hopefully you'll make good friends quickly, my other bit of advice is don't listen or join in with office gossip (I try not to!) x

Good Luck and well done you for getting the job x

Answer 6

You got this job because you were the best candidate so your employer must have been impressed. Just be yourself and don't try too hard to 'fit in'. Remember, everyone has to start somewhere

Answer 7

It's a cliche but. Look, listen and learn. Try and suss out who you can trust. Some bits will be boring, if the other bits outnumber them then ENJOY.

Answer 8

Just relax and be yourself. Have confidence in yourself. Listen to your boss and to the advice and instructions they give you. You'll do fine.

Answer 9

You should make a living online