dream interpretation?

Question

i alway have this dream that me and my ex are flirting and having fun with each other and just act like no-one else is around basically. but the thing is his other ex is always there to. she never talks or interacts with us, she just sits there and watches us. in one dream i had she was actually sitting behind a flower pot and spying on us. and its either at school or in a nice fancy hotel

why do i keep having dreams about my ex
and his other ex is in it

anybody have an idea?

Answer 1

You seem to still have some residual link to your ex. I don't know how your relationship was to his other ex when you were married, but you still seem to have a residual link to her to, maybe because she was a factor in that relationship that seemed to be always present. The dream is not negative to you since you are having fun with your ex. Dreams are nice in that you can relate and have fun in them with people from your past, that you probably could not do when awake, because of practical considerations. You must have had fun at times when you were married. If you have a current relationship, it might be good to try to clear out some of the attachment to your past you still have. Also this would be good to do for that sake fo future relationships. Unless you see a possibility of getting back with your ex. Meditation or counseling, or some form of venting of your past emotions, might clear out this past history if that is what you want.

Answer 2

"To dream about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or that you and your ex got back together again, suggests that something or someone in your current life that is bringing out similar feelings you felt during the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behavior in a current relationship. What you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do no repeat the same mistake. Alternatively, past lovers often highlight the positive experiences you had with that person.�It could also signify aspects of yourself that you have x'd out or neglected.

To see your mate's ex in your dream, suggests that you may be comparing yourself to the ex. The dream is trying to tell you not to make the same relationship mistakes that ended that relationship.�

To dream that you are making out with your ex, signifies your acceptance of certain characteristics of your ex. The dream does not necessarily mean that you want to get back together with him or her. Consider what were the things you liked and disliked about him. These are the same qualities that you are finally acknowledging within your own self.

To dream that you ex� has died, indicates that your feelings for you ex are completely dead now. The dream is a metaphor of how you have let go of the past and are ready to move on and fully devote yourself to new relationships."