I am into this girl. We've gone on a probably 3 dates and have another planned... So I like to think shes interested too... now should I just be blunt and say "As you can see, I'm into you.. I jsut wanna make sure we're both in the same boat and you have that interest in me as well..." or something like that or should I just go with the flow? Can you give me some ideas as to what I should say or when I should say it?? thanks a ton
2007-12-23 05:57:13 · 25 answers · asked by mperry1408 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-12-23 05:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by shygirl93 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She must like you too, she is dating you. Of course you should let her know that she is special to you and find out if she feels the same way, but relax, and do not be in a big hurry. Do not try to force anything, I mean, let things happen on their own, but do tell her how you feel. That is worth doing. Keep dating her for as long as she is willing to date you. Dev elope a good friendship and build from there what might be built. Get to know each other as much as you can. Do not get into anything that would cause either of you to be uncomfortable with each other. Stay fun to be with and around. Just see what happens. Believe in yourself, even if things do not work out with her. There are other ladies out there. Just be a terrific guy. You are worth keeping pure until you get married if you hear what I am saying, and do not be in a hurry to do that either. Enjoy life for as long as you can.
2007-12-23 06:11:41 · answer #2 · answered by Norman B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, she obviously knows you're interested if you've already gone out on 3 dates, planning another. But, if you don't want it to slip into the "friend zone" I would just come out and say it. I had to do that with my current boyfriend (before we were exclusive) and believe me, it took some guts. I pretty much said "hey, where do we stand, I obviously like you alot and I want to make sure we are on the same page." Good luck with everything!
2007-12-23 06:02:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your relationship is so new that it is really not appropriate to make advances just yet. Hoever, you would be completely within your right to tell her you are having a nice time on these dates with her, that you really like her company and would like to continue seeing her on a regular basis....that in and of itself is enough to let her know you are "really into her". Just take it slow and see what happens, when people rush these matters it always ends up falling apart. If you need any other help feel free to ask...and I hope I have helped.
2007-12-23 06:05:43 · answer #4 · answered by knelson1035 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't ask her how she feels. Just worry about how you feel. Next time you guys date, you should be sure and compliment some specific quality about her. Don't just say "you're beautiful," focus on the hair, the eyes, anything, just pick a feature...only don't say she's punctual (Aladdin?). Yeah, and when you guys are wrapping it up, tell her that you are very attracted to her and ask her to be your girl. Maybe surprise her with a simple gift, some earrings or something too.
2007-12-23 06:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to be your girlfriend already. Seal the deal with a gift your next date. I won't suggest what to say its better if you do since you know her personally. If she says yes your on the same boat if not then its up to you to make a decision to stay or go.
Oh, bring flowers or even better send them to her. Nothings better then having flowers sent to you where everyone can see. She'll be thinking about you all day and will definitely say,"Yes!!"
Good Luck!!
2007-12-23 06:09:03 · answer #6 · answered by Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 11:45:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should know you are into her after you asked her on 3 dates. You should know if she is into you by the way she acts on these dates.
If you can see her on christmas, tell her she looks beautiful and then give her a small, but sweet gift. Nothing to expensive.
She will really like this.
2007-12-23 06:05:17 · answer #8 · answered by sdgsue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on my experience I think it's better to wait until she gives you a solid sign she's hooked on you before you say anything so clearly.
Chicks are more wise about relationships in general and they tend to be more in tune with her emotions, so wait for her to say something .....
But keep SHOWING HER how you feel by continuing to date her --- when she's really ready, she will say something to you or show you by the way she looks at you in that special moment, etc. Then you will know what to do.
They're magic and you are a lucky guy that you're dating someone you really really like. ......
2007-12-23 06:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by Peter L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On your next date say, "Hey this is fun, isn't it? I really enjoy going out with you. How about you? Did you like all our dates? Yeah, wow I was thinking about making this a regular thing. Do you feel the same way I do?
2007-12-23 06:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by DANGEROUS WHEN THREATENED 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i love you's!
that could freak her out..
just make sure your date could be as interesting and fun as possible and in the end of the night find a quiet spot to sit and talk and tell her something like "i love being around you... and i'm really glad we've gone out for a couple of times... (name), i'm really into you.. ..
haha yeah somethin like that..
2007-12-23 06:05:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋