my boyfriend doesnt get along with my dad. my dad hates my boyfriend, he thinks that he is a bad influence on me. my dad is trying to ruin his life an di want them to get along. i hate my dad...(in other words...i dont get along with him either)
i cant run away, he followed my boyfriend home and knows where he lives. what should i do...
HELP!!!!
2007-12-23 05:50:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If the only contact your Dad had with your boyfriend was "Hi Dad this is my boyfriend!" and then you two ran off, I don't think you impressed him much. Tell your Dad how and where you met boyfriend and why you like him so much.
Your boyfriend needs to make a serious effort to prove he is worthy of your affections in your Dad's eyes. He needs to talk to your Dad, in a civil manner, about how important you are to him. If he feels your boyfriend cares about you as much as he does, your Dad will respect him and be more apt to like you boyfriend.
Finally consider the question, Is your boyfriend a bad influence? Perhaps your Dad loves you enough to care about what may happen to you. If he didn't care, he would probably say and do NOTHING!
2007-12-23 06:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Radar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't know lots of details that would help to make suggestions more valid for you. How old are you both?
Why does dad think boyfriend is bad influence? How is dad trying to ruin boyfriend's life?
Not knowing all three sides of it, I can only say, time will tell and heal all separations, if your fella is a stand-up guy.
Maybe dad knows something, it's just possible. Maybe dad cares enough about you to try to get through the 'fog' that comes with this type of relationship and keeps you from hearing his care and concern for you.
Need more details to be able to answer this better.
Good luck :)
2007-12-23 05:56:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
First how old are you?
If you are under 18, that is what fathers are supposed to, Hate their daughters boyfriends... Or at least make it look that way...
I actualy have a set of rules to date my daughter, there are 10 of them... It is a joke and all the boys get a kick out of it.
There is also an application to fill out... another joke.
I am sure that there is a reason why they don't like each other.
2007-12-23 05:58:41 · answer #3 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well your dad is only carry for you,
but your dad may be envious that your boyfriend has taken you away from him,
never the less,
you have to tell your dad how you feel about your boyfriend,
say i am my own person and i shall be with my boyfriend if i want, and tell your dad to stop his attitude towards your relationship
2007-12-23 05:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
speak to my daughter about this and she will tell you that youre dad only wants whats best for you,like has your boyfriend got an education?does he have a proper job?has he got any qualifications? dads are dads they just dont want their princesses being messed about.And if you love your dad like i think you do,you will see as my daughter did, it is dad who is right,but you need to find areas you can both agree on as well. Hope this helps and remember you only have one dad but a few boyfriends.
2007-12-23 05:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by tristar 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My dad hated all my boyfriends up until I started dating my current boyfriend. Looking back, I understand why now. Remember that your dad is just looking out for you. Since you're saying you "can't run away" I'm going to assume that you're young, probably shouldn't be dating seriously and the last thing you need to be thinking about is "running away".
2007-12-23 05:55:13 · answer #6 · answered by ☆andi☆ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Twos choices
1. Forget you dad its your life. or
2.Let them get to know each other sort of give them father/boyfriend time and see if they get on.
2007-12-23 05:55:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all if you are under 18 yrs of age, I would really consider why your dad does not approve. Remember that your parents are there for you for life. Boyfriends will come and go, but family is forever.
Life. Styled.
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2007-12-23 05:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
you need to talk to your dad and say how much you love and respect him but that in order to feel safe you need to know he will be calm and supportive when things might go wrong..having your boyfriend around your family gives you security and if he's really worried about this guy he needs to let you find out the truth for yourself.
2007-12-23 05:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by minerva 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your boyfriend. date him later in life when you are in your 20's. Your dad will Love him then :) .
2007-12-23 05:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Stockton C 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋