The feeling's mutual: I like him and he likes me.. except for there's a little distance between us (about 10 hours). Last night we were talking and he said how his couch and bed smelled like sex and cigarettes. so I was like, "lovely". And I was on webcam and he said I had a look of jealousy. Why would he tell me that he had sex with another girl if he claims to like me? He said he's liked me for a while now. He was like, "I want to get to know you better. I've liked you a while now, don't let the perpetual horniness fool you". Any thoughts? Was he just trying to see my reaction to see how much I liked him or something? And it's not a secret that he wants to have sex with me, but he respects the fact that I'm still a virgin and knows I wouldn't have sex with anyone unless I was in a relationship. He's 22 and I'm 23.
2007-12-23
04:59:32
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I do like him enough to actually meet him. It's just a matter of when since he's in the Marines and I go to school full time. He actually told me I should move out to California which is where he'll more than likely be stationed next, but I told him I was moving back to Ohio after I graduate in a year.
2007-12-23
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He was testing you... for what purpose is the question. But it may be a way of manipulating you... which is not a good sign.
2007-12-23 05:06:15
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answered by ? 7
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The fact that you are 23 and still a virgin is a very respectable thing. This guy may like you, but the fact that he is telling you that his couch and bed smell like sex and cigarrettes...makes him sound sleezy. Sex may be the only thing he is after. Don't let this guy fool you. By telling you he is sleeping with other girls..he is basically telling you that he IS NOT THAT INTO U...and that he is a dog looking for his next bootie call. You deserve much better than this. I say hold out until you find someone who is NOT A DOG..and is not going to brag about how many girls he is sleeping with. This guy sounds like a walking disease....ugh
2007-12-23 13:27:26
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answered by willow8975 2
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well, i think in order to make your relationship work that far away then sometimes you may need some one in your town to just lay with and feel needed usually that's the way guys are.(he hinted he was just horney with the perpetual horiness line) guys just need to feel wanted. i also think like you said he could just be wanting to see how much you car for him; you never know that girl who he has sex with could just be a pity **** some one to drop his load in, you never know. but he obviously is somewhat interested in you if he is still talking to you. you must have something he likes alot, but i would just not worry about it maybe you could just ask him what he felt during it and see were to go from there. but just remember if you have no plans of ever meeting this guy or even just having future plans of seeing him then don't get angry over someone who lives 10 hours away.
2007-12-23 13:11:17
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answered by me. 2
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Maybe. Maybe he's just trying to show you that other women like him and if you don't snatch him up then he'll be claimed by another. Guys are really dumb sometimes, I'm a dude and I do really dumb stuff. It's so great. Err...wait how are you able to stay a virgin until 23. You have so much more self control then myself.
2007-12-23 13:07:20
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answered by A55H0L3 3
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He's trying to show what stud he is & thinks you'll want more He's Marine he doesn't want anything but sex from you stupid he's away from home & his trying to get you close to get more control over you My buddies do this all the time sometimes with 3-4 girls a night sorry
2007-12-26 15:38:23
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answered by Anonymous
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the fact that ya'll are 10 hrs apart, not in a relationship and ur virgin may have something to do with it. he may have felt like ya'll were cool enough to share this info. he also could have been trying to make u jealous. who knows. but if ya'll arent together and u said u dont plan on having sex with him, what difference does it make?
2007-12-23 13:07:08
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answered by the_kid_doesnt_care 5
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he is trying to get you jealous and just get a reaction out of you. if you like him react to it if not then act like you don't care! this is the oldest trick in the book! Come on people!
2007-12-23 13:09:24
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answered by tedd y 3
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Sounds like hes trying to just have a sexual relationship with you and that is all.
2007-12-23 13:09:57
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answered by Tony^^ 4
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He probably just wants you to know that he has had sex, maybe lots of it. And doesn't want you to think otherwise. But he still wants you to know that he likes you.
2007-12-23 13:04:56
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answered by Canuck2222 2
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