2007-12-23 03:59:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
k, open mindedly, all emotins aside..do you really love this guy?
if you really do, fight for him.why should you not?
if you not sure, and really see him as never loving you, dont' waste your time.....there are so many uys out there..
you deserve best...
good luck
2007-12-23 04:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by simply_gorgeousnesss 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first question is how do you know that he doesn't love you and my second question is how long have you been together? Some people fall in love very quick and are ready to give fully of themselves while others tend to hold back on that deep of emotion until they are sure. It might not be that he doesn't love you, it could be that he has hurt by past relationship(s), and is not ready to commit wholly at this time, but has feelings for you. Try to talk to him and ask him if he sees your relationship going any further than what it is now and if he says no, then thank him for his honesty and move on, there is a person out there for you that will love you. Don't give up just because one doesn't work out. And on the lighter side of things, as my husband told a friend of ours, men are like buses, when one leaves another one comes around the corner. I hope that you find what you are looking for.
Merry Christmas
2007-12-23 12:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by cajun_queen_1970 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
I have spent way too much time in my life trying to make people love me. It's useless.
Take some time to yourself. Don't pursue him and don't try to find a replacement boy. Use the heart break as a time of exploration -- figure out who you are, what you like to do. Understand why this didn't work out. Pesonally, I believe all things happen for a reason. As they say, hindsight is 20/20.
Go take a yoga class. Or classes in a different language. Or learn a new skill. Something to take your mind off of it, while improving yourself at the same time.
2007-12-23 12:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by zmamasita 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the boy doesn't love you back, then you deserve /much/ better (Totally no offense meant).
You deserve someone who loves you and only you. If you try to get involved with someone who doesn't love you, then chances are they won't respect you either, and that can be disastrous.
2007-12-23 12:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by csi_2_be 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boy
2007-12-23 12:02:12 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i suppose if the boy can't appreciate that u like him stuff him get some one who does
2007-12-23 12:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by cherubkilla 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go shopping...
2007-12-23 12:02:59 · answer #7 · answered by ogg08 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋