Well met a young gal, she is 18, met her in an adult chatroom, she seems to be a nice gal as person but she is looking for sex, im 31 and i kinda lead her away from the forum and the lifestyle, as a guy i know she is legal but the conscience deep inside me saying she is young and she is there for the wrong reason,
Am i being stupid to tell her subtlely that what she is doing is kinda wrong
I kinda told her that love would bring good sex to her
Am i being over protective and do you think 18 is ok for someone for wanting a master ?
This is the 2007 and ppl should be responsible for their acts rite ?
Im kinda in the middle here, at times i feel like im robbing the cradle, sometimes she looks like a grown women but sometimes there is this thing in the back of my head that keep screaming she is not quite the women yet, Do you think 18 is allrite or am i being a pervert, but arghhhhhhhhhhh
2007-12-23 03:44:48 · 18 answers · asked by Spiritual Player 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think I should carry on, because she really wants sex, in your mind do you think its ok, or am i taking advantage ? I dont wanna feel like im a let down to her and feel like im not a gentleman
2007-12-23 03:49:20 · update #1
Am i being stupid trying to reform her
will she understand when i say no and will she think of me less of a man ?
2007-12-23 03:54:53 · update #2
She is 18 years old for goodness sake!!! Yeah she might be legal BUT morally it is wrong... You should not be corresponding with someone that young... It does not settle right with me... You know it is wrong too!!!
2007-12-23 03:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm - I gotta ask - do you really know for sure that this person is 18? Do you even know if she is really a girl? Because if you've never met her, you could be having your chain very seriously jerked by someone who is a balding middle-aged guy with a cigar drooling onto his keyboard. I think you are being played. Honestly, at age 31, too, since you say you feel in the middle - sounds like you are interested in bonking her - so, are you really interested in "protecting" her, or bonking her (if it really is a her, and it's not just a poached picture.)? I say you should be trying to meet someone who is more your own age and interests, who could be equally bonk-worthy with (as YOU YOURSELF advise) the addition of love. Stay out of the "adult chatrooms", and involve yourself in life.
2007-12-23 11:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If inside you, you think that this is wrong, being age difference and she being young and does not know as much. If you don't feel comfortable you should just tell her straight up, give her some advice to be safe and acknowledge her that you care about her and don't want her to make a mistake.
2007-12-23 11:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry ,but i should say :
yes you are an idiot
that girl need sexuality and if you are really good person ,you can do it for her
i know that she is under lots of stress for not having sex
so you can be a good person to her but in case of sex you can be the best for her
it is better than she goes with a asshole who give make her drink or smoke or drug
then in a long term she will find everything by herself
do not be a HOLY person
even a holly person needs sex,so there is not anything wrong with that if both of you understand each other and have safe sex
good luck
PS
2007-12-23 11:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by parvaz347 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
um, spiritual prayer!
you've pretty much answered your own question.
leave this chick alone and find you a woman with some restraint and class!
please!
i know 31 year old men are not that lazy these days that they would rather settle for a wet behind the ear who wears too much make-up rather than engaging in intellectual convo with a woman who is wise enough to put God before a man and her flesh...
come on now! you've been warned...so, don't act as if you can't help yourself once you read all these YA!
LEAVE HER ALONE!
2007-12-23 11:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by :::cognac & cuban cigars::: 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find someone your own age, or around there. I think 18 is too young. You should tell her to wait till she's like 2o or something. Because that's just wrong. Yes, people should be responsible for their acts. It's not like you're a pervert, just find someone your own age.
2007-12-23 11:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how many people go into chat rooms pretending to be someone else just for laughs? You were probably talking to a 70 year old man.
2007-12-24 11:16:29 · answer #7 · answered by coolbetcch. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are doing the right thing, and i dont think you are being a pervert
i bet you are feeling awful but i think try and tell her that it is wrong, she isn't a grown up woman yet!
i dont think she knows how it is to be in love.
i dont think you should sleep with her.
good luck
*by the way i dont think a proper good woman will go on websites for sex*
2007-12-23 11:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are doing the right thing by strearing her in the right direction. I think that she is too young to be having sex. She is 18 years old but... she is not married and sex was made for marriage only.
2007-12-23 11:49:39 · answer #9 · answered by Operator 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't reform her. It is a hopeless cause. She is trashy and will end up hurting you. Find someone closer to your age. You have nothing in common with this girl.
2007-12-23 11:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋