Is there anyone out there who believes that sex before marriage is wrong BUT, who believes that it's ok to be homosexual. My guess is that the two can't coincide, but I could be wrong.
I believe most people would say they're both okay and some Christians would say they're both wrong. What do you think?
2007-12-21 19:28:37 · 22 answers · asked by Oh it's me! 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I am a gay man who says sex before marriage is wrong!
2007-12-21 20:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by Beau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married to a jehovah's witness now for 6yrs and they firmly believe in marriage first and no same sex marriages. I have had a really hard time, i want the truth but at the same time i dont want to be close minded about other peoples beliefs. I think that as long as some one is honestly happy in what/who they are, and it hurts no one, who are we to judge or care?
Wasnt much of an anwser but i hope it was a bit insightful!
~Cat~
2007-12-22 03:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was born and raised in a Christian family, however, I do not personally call myself a Christian. I follow a life with many of my morals and beliefs taken from Christianity but I do not agree with many of its ways.
To answer your question, I believe that you fall in love with a person and not a gender. I believe that it is natural to be born with a biased sexuality whether straight or homosexual. I believe that being attracted to one or the other is not wrong. As for sex before marriage, I believe that more people should wait until marriage. I believe that too many people are hurting themselves by having sex before marriage. Sex can causes pregnancy, disease, and greater heartache. I believe the pressures of society make it hard to remain a virgin in today's world but that you should maintain your virginity until you are so devoted to someone that you want to spend the rest of your life with them and are prepared to deal with the extreme responsibility that comes with.
In summary: homosexuality is not a wrong by any means and saving your virginity in this unclean world is one of the best things you can do for yourself!
2007-12-22 03:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by gwail4 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think homosexuality is NOT wrong but I also believe sex before marriage isn't wrong either...
2007-12-22 03:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you have sex after marriage you are more capable of handling a child (if they had unprotected sex) but if the two are ready for it and wanted to I wouldn't mind and I'm okay with homosexuals being as I'm Bisexual.
I'm a Christian, I know being a Christian and Bi is kinda unethical, but who cares... I believe God loves everyone no matter what.
2007-12-22 03:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Personally, I believe that most people aren't mature enough to have sex before they are married, so they should wait. There are exceptions.
I think sexual preference is irrelevant, no matter what it is. Bisexual, lesbian, gay, straight; I'm all okay with it.
I have nothing against homosexuals and think most people should wait until marriage.
2007-12-22 03:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Don't worry, Be happy. 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Could some clear something up for me. It is said that if you are gay, that you are atrracted to the same sex. That being the case, why do most all gay relationships have a masculine, (male behavior) and Feminine (female) personalities to make the relationship work.
Wouldn't you have both acting male or both acting female?
2007-12-22 04:12:31 · answer #7 · answered by Vengance 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I believe that homosexual sex before marriage is wrong.
2007-12-22 03:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by Lord of the Flies 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
They're both fine by me. But I don't consider either of them related. Homosexuality is genetic. You cannot choose to be homosexual or not be. Having sex before marriage is a choice.
2007-12-22 03:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
Sex is personal. None of us can judge you or tell you that one way is okay and another way isn't.
But we can tell you how you're going to cause harm to yourself and others if you don't take the act with the utmost respect. Women especially should be aware of the consequences. You and your guy might be together for the moment, but the girl is potentially making a 20-year commitment to a kid.
Homosexuality really isn't "wrong", it's unnatural and it evokes a disgust in most people the same way you can be disgusted by thinking of sex with a person 200 pounds overweight. Being disgusted by homosexuality is perfectly natural, and the gay rights people are lying to us by calling us "homophobes".
2007-12-22 03:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋