I have recently started going out with my new boyfriend we went out with each other after 4 days of knowing each other. i am scared of what other people think and they always refer to him as his previous's girlfriends ex boyfriend. i like him a lot and he seems to like me but how do i feel more comfortable around him and talk to him easier.
2007-12-21 15:26:11 · 8 answers · asked by Tisha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop letting others effect your life! Why should it matter he is another's Ex? I mean if you date then at 1 time u where all another's Ex! If you both feel the same then you should take advantage of that!
2007-12-21 15:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It almost sounds as though this guy picked you on the rebound - as though he had spent a lot of time with someone, just got dumped, and wanted to get into a relationship quickly (no offense to you, it doesn't reflect on you, but it reflects on him!) . Why else would he be known primarily as someone's "ex". Not a good sign, anyway. It is a huge strike against it working, and it does not seem that you know each other at all or have much in common. But, the best you can do is try to find out what you DO have in common. Talk about what you like to do!
2007-12-21 23:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe u r not ready for a relationship with him... tell him how u feel when u r around him, and why u feel that way... if he's willing 2 try 2 work it out with u... then i would say try ur bestest 2 make it work... cuz if u don't try, it's not really going 2 work out... but seriouslly... the first thing u need 2 do is actually talk to him about it and if he shows u he supports u... then i would say he's very supportive and he is relaly into u... so u would have to try ur hardest to like work this issue out
2007-12-21 23:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i don't see why it's a problem if you date him 4 days after knowing him. I mean the main reason people date is to get to know eachother. And things just take time. Don't worry. As long as you like eachother than you will be perfectly fine.
2007-12-21 23:30:11 · answer #4 · answered by Actress99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well one thing before i answer the last questions don't worry about what other people think ok. Ask him questions about him and pay attention.
2007-12-21 23:32:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
d best i can tell u is to forgot & dun ask anything of his past history. as a new g/f of u, try to noe & understand him better fm right now onwards...
wish u & ur b/f, forever good...
2007-12-21 23:31:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get to know him better and uncover the truth..
2007-12-21 23:32:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and be ur self if ya is going out then obviously he likes u for u already so just don't mind wat others r saying
2007-12-21 23:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by J.B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋