2007-12-21 15:14:05 · 7 answers · asked by i love him♥ I SWEAR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Marriage is a lot harder than you think.
Plus, you're only 15. You have the rest of high school, and then maybe college to go through.
I understand that you wouldn't want to hurt him and turn him down.
Tell him that you love him and ONE day you would want to get married, but you would like to finish out school, and get married when you are both a few years older.
You have your whole life to live and experience whether with him or someone else. But making a decision like marriage can actually make your relationship come to an end if your not ready.
Personally I think 15 is too young. No offense but 15 year olds don't know exactly what they want. Your still very young. Marriage is a huge thing to go through. It's a lot harder, and different then you'd think.
Good Luck Happy Holidays.
2007-12-21 15:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take it you do not want to.
First of all....you may not legally be allowed to marry in your state.
Tell your boyfriend that you are too young for marriage. You have goals that you want to accomplish first - go away to college, live in an apartment on your own. Learn to support yourself. Buy a beer. Tell him you are willing to consider his proposal but not before your 23 birthday.
Or....since your 15 - tell there is no way your dad would allow it.
2007-12-21 23:21:26 · answer #2 · answered by Boots 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're freaking FIFTEEN.
you can't get married.
with parental approval, yes i guess so,
but come on.
that comes with so many responsibilities.
you're a teenager, you don't know that much.
just because you've been "dating" for 3 years doesn't help, because youre basically just kids...
I'm 15 as well and I'd never get married to someone at this age..
that's just weird.
don't do it.
unless you're some hick or somethingg.
Engaged and underaged material, muchh?
2007-12-21 23:18:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a 17 year old and im not even thinking about getting married
just cuz ur asking it makes me wonder if ur really ready
what about ur parents
what about babies
just cuz 3 years or dating doesnt mean ur ready to get married
your so young
if u really like him tell him how you feel but your not ready
what about jobs
are you going to live together
will you have to drop out of high school?
think about this.
2007-12-21 23:26:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are just 15. You can't get married at this age. I suppose that you have to wait a little bit.
2007-12-21 23:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by ♥♥felisha♥♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. You would have to have parental permission anyway (I think). You are WAY too young to get married. The very fact that you're asking what to do says that you're not ready. I'm not bashing you for asking for advice, I'm just saying that you're too young.
2007-12-21 23:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jen due December 09 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.....think about it >>>>>if u say yes, where in the world r u gonna get married?
-who is gonna pay for the wedding?
-r u gonna live 2gether?
-how about babies?
-will ur parents be ok with it?
-how about u wait till ur out of school(dont drop out)
¿love is great isnt it?
....enjoy this part of your life dont worry about marriage yet....worry about being happy with him now that ur young and still with a lot of time left to be with him............
2007-12-21 23:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by >>LiZ<< 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋