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1) she told you the truth cause she realized to herself that she really loves you and not the other guy
2) she don't want to keep any secrets(guilts)
3) she already dump the other guy
2007-12-21 15:08:55 · 20 answers · asked by Benjo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be thankful for her honesty and careful in your relationship; once the pattern is set it's hard to break
2007-12-21 15:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by been good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound like a dodge, but no one can answer this question for you. No one can really tell what they will do when a loved one cheats until they have actually been in that situation - and everyone is different. How do you feel about this - other than hurt? Do you feel you can believe her, do you feel that she is going to be faithful from now on, that she has learned something? Was there something wrong in your relationship that caused her to look elsewhere, or was it something inside of her, and if it was inside her, does she understand what that was and is it fixed? Good luck, whatever you choose. I know it is not easy.
2007-12-21 15:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound harsh, but the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" is common for a reason. If she dumped him then it sounds like it was not a one-time mistake, but something that was going on for at least a little while. I would break things off and move on.
2007-12-21 15:12:06 · answer #3 · answered by Magpie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone always says that in this situation, they would leave and never look back... BUT it's hard, especially when you believe the other person has legitamately changed. I don't believe the old saying of, "If they've done it once, they'll do it again." I think it really depends on how much you trust this person to never do it again, and that lies all in you... Good luck, I know what you're going through.
2007-12-21 15:13:38 · answer #4 · answered by ecemajor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, cheating is unforgivable. Period. How will you be able to look at her and not think of the other guy? How can you trust her to be out with her "friends" without wondering? Take this opportunity to test the playing field and keep her number in your back pocket as a do-over in a year if things don't work out with someone else.
2007-12-21 15:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by Amber B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on many things. I wonder if she really dumped the guy or he dumped her and she is worried that somehow you will find out. I think a break to sort things out would be appropriate. There is not enough info here.
2007-12-21 15:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by Heidi62 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump her because you cant trust her now that she double crossed you.but if believe she wont do it again and isnt like a umm you know then stay with her. its hard to say unless you have a really good understanding.
2007-12-21 15:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think you should dump her. But thinking for the good of the relationship, thank her for telling you, and just keep things going. every relationship gets a rough patch now and again.
2007-12-21 15:13:00 · answer #8 · answered by Kaylee A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she lied to you before, it's likely she's not telling the truth now about loving you. Harsh, I know, but she'll cheat on you again (I give 15 to 1 odds on this myself).
2007-12-21 15:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by badmonkey715 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be wise man, can you trust her ? I mean she won't do that again in the future, i love the thought she don't want to keep any secrets(guilts).
2007-12-21 15:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋