my best freinds girlfreind likes me. i hang out with him alot and somtimes he brings his girlfreind with him and as soon as he leaves she start saying things like "your really cute" ,"your so much cooler then joey(her boyfreind) and once i yelled at her to stay away from and joey overheard and now he pissed at me and he wont let me even talk to him.she came to my party there was alot of kids there joey was not there and she was flirting with me one of joeys freinds saw and he said i was flirting with her now he really hates me and got his freinds to hate me now.what do i do
2007-12-21 15:06:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what you should do is invite that girl over and tell her if she really likes you all she has to do is dump Joey tell him she never liked him and has always liked you and you'll go out with her as soon as she's confirmed she's done the deed. Once that's settled dump her sorry *** and go tell Joey everything and he SHOULD believe you, if he doesn't he's more dense then I thought. no offense sorry. Or before you have the girl dump Joey tell Joey about your plan.
2007-12-21 15:12:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to get you away from Joey. Whenever you are with Joey and she shows up, leave. If he brings her along, leave saying, "I sure you two want to be together without me." Yes, it hurts, but eventually Joey will realize he's got an unreliable flirt for a girlfriend and will drop her. Better to sacrifice time with him now than to kill the relationship.
If she comes up and tries to flirt, ignore her, walk away, don't open your mouth. Go up to others. She'll tag along, "why are you being mean to me??" and you can reply, "You are Joey's girlfriend, not mine."
By all means stay away from this package of dynamite least you get really damaged.
2007-12-21 15:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to confront joey.
it wont be easy... but is it worth losing a friendship over ?
and you need to have the girlfriend there too.
don't worry, i've had a similair situation.
but, you do need to be nice to the girlfriend.
because if she runs and complains to joey... he's going to take her side because YOU were mean to his "girl".
also, you need to remind joey that you are his buddie, and you wouldn't lie to him.
you really need to be detailed, too. say exactly what SHE SAID and WHEN SHE SAID IT !
that will make the difference in your guys's relationship.
i hope all goes well. && God Bless !
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year !
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good luck again. (:
2007-12-21 15:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by riah. <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the time u yelled was to tell her to stay away .....hey this saying should apply bros before ho*s i mean if hes a true friend he should listen to u ....give him a little room but dont wait to long to talk to him tell him what his gf is doing be honest with him :) i know its hard but hes ur friend and he may be upset but at least u try!
goodluck<3
2007-12-21 15:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would distance from them both for a while and let them settle what's between them. IF they split you are free to pursue. If not, at least your friend will see her flirting with others when you are not around and you will be vindicated.
Perception is everything...
2007-12-21 15:10:36 · answer #5 · answered by been good 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what's going on if he dose not believe you than catch her in the act. Or you could try dumping that friend because a real friend would beileve you and if all of his other friends saw that she was flirting not you then they could help you out.
2007-12-21 15:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, golden rule, come on man. You never dog your best bros chick, no matter how hot she is. You can't even go out with her if they break up, that's just the deal. It's like man rule #1. You've got to set things right with your bro.
2007-12-21 15:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Dude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think you should tell ur best friend what is really happening. tell him that you think his girlfriend likes you and tell him the stuff she said to you. also, tell his girlfriend to stop being a flirt and to stay away from you maybe..
2007-12-21 15:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is mad at you, you have no choice but to tell him what's going on. If he doesn't believe you, he will have to find out about her the hard way.
2007-12-21 15:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to man up, if you like this chick back then go with it, if you'd rather not let this chick get between you 2 then fine by me, send her my way....she's just 1 chick bro
2007-12-21 15:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by xvireroca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋