We've been together for almost 2 years. I have the feeling some times that he will propose soon. He will travel this Christmas to my country to meet my mom.
I adore this man and he has been faithful and devoted to me. However he has the annoying habit to look at pretty girls, especially when he is with his male buddies. Last August I broke up with him because he was frecuently looking at porn, so I thought he was an addict, but he assured me he did not really need to look at porn and promissed to give it up completely (his idea, I didn't ask) and so far I think he has kept his word.
Sometimes he turns his head to see a pretty woman and that makes me feel insecure.
Perhaps I am being paranoid? I know I have some trusting issues.
2007-12-21 14:31:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told him that I feel disrespected and unconfortable when he checks out other women and he said that it is a reflex, and that he does not mean to hurt me, but because it bothers me he will control himself.
2007-12-21 14:33:38 · update #1
You no way of knowing the future. He may never cheat on you or he could be doing it now. You may even cheat on him some day.
I do not mean to insult you or him or be cruel. There is just no guarantee.
2007-12-21 14:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by hamrrfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys perv, that is something that will never change. With the porn thing? well yeah most guys have porn - it's their escape into a fantasy land. It doesn't mean he doesn't think any less of you - as long as he keeps the porn to himself and doesn't force you to watch it with him. I know that girls get turned on by reading erotic stories, well, guys get turned on by watching porn.
If you do everything sexual to him that he likes and take the initiative to spice things up and be creative in the bedroom then he won't have a reason to cheat but if you are rarely having sex he will get it from someone else.
2007-12-21 22:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ben J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be involved with you, but he is not dead. Most men will look at a beautiful woman. I'd suggest you make light of the matter, or you are going to have a rocky relationship.
2007-12-21 22:39:25 · answer #3 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can be sure a man will never cheat on you is to go out with women.
2007-12-21 22:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by pumpdatiron 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋