To me, over the past few months ive been really bitchy and snappy at people, and sometimes they really annoy me, which they usually wouldnt have done. Its like i can see my friends clearly for the first time, how two faced they all act and I always confront them now.
I'm loosing my friends because of it, and I feel as if everyone has changed, yknow? But, thts not possible, its most likely me thats changing...
Please help, I feel so lonely, and everyday Im scared that Im going to loose someone else (like whats happening...) So I end up asskissing them because im so afraid that im going to loose them, and then they think im annoying and its just not me
please help, any advice, any thing I can do to help me find myself again?
2007-12-21 13:08:24 · 7 answers · asked by E..x 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I would but most of my friends are two faced, or I can either spot some other fault like how they lie or stuff like that, and if I dont confront them I get really angry about it and I end up bitching loads
2007-12-21 13:13:00 · update #1
You know it's a good thing that you're starting to see your friends for who they are and good for confronting them, but tell them you still enjoy being their friend, but the way they act isn't right and you realize that now. Go to church, sports events, tryouts, bars, bowling, what ever and just be friendly and friends will come. There are better people out there than that.
Good luck
2007-12-21 13:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have outgrown your friends. The best way to let go is to move on. Try joining a book club or a cooking class you know anything that you are interested in and take the opportunity to grow and meet new people. You may also want to look into some anger management classes to get to the root of why you are so angry about the opportunity to change. Good Luck!
2007-12-21 13:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It pretty improbable that everyone around you is changing. It's probaly just the way you're perceiving things. This is a good sign of Depression. I would know because I have Depression and felt the same way. I was thinking all my friends were turning on me, talking behind my back, etc... I was losing friends just like you. Best bet is to go and see a Doctor. He'll know if you have depression and put you on the right meds. It worked for me.
2007-12-21 13:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by Darktania 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont hang around with 2 faced people, find new friends and try to change our attitude in a positve matter. be more friendly, smile, even when things arent going right
2007-12-21 13:52:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being that way and get rid of the two-faced people. They're no good.
2007-12-21 13:11:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if they really do care about you, they would stick with you, just think before you speak, and just kind of take a few breaths and don't say anything stupid. (no offense).
2007-12-21 13:15:10 · answer #6 · answered by rendezvous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww i feel you... this same dilemma is occurring to me too?!?!?!?! but the true one are still their and supporting me though this weir stage of my life...
2007-12-21 13:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋