ok so i was invited to this guys party along with other people but the only other girl just decided that she will be going to a basketball game first... so i would be the only girl at the party for about an hour or so... the girl invited me to go to the basketball game with her and then come late to the party
should i go to the party and be the only girl or go to the basketball game and come late to the party?
keep in mind im a freshman in high school
2007-12-21 11:04:50 · 18 answers · asked by going [[nowhere]] fast 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is there someone else going to the party who will look out for you and protect you? Who knows, maybe this other girl wouldn't do that, but that would be my main concern. You get a whole bunch of walking testosterone there, egging each other on, and one girl to show off for, it could get a tad weird. You want someone there who will stand up for you and will not allow you to get abused.
2007-12-21 11:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Damocles 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go to the basketball game with the other girl first unless you know these guys and trust them. It's not a safe situation for you to be in if you go to the party alone. Even if nothing happened if you went to the party alone, people may still think badly about you. Besides if you go late, you don't look desperate to be there. You will instead look like you had other things more important to do then the party.
2007-12-21 19:08:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're, what? 13? 14? Ya got no business going to an unchaparoned party at all. Go to the ball game with the girl. After the game go home. Show your parents that you have a good, straight head.
2007-12-21 19:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the basketball game and then with the girl to the party. It's not smart to be the only girl there.
2007-12-21 19:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you trust the guys and know them then you can go first if you would like, but if you feel uncomfortable being the only girl there around a bunch of guys then go ahead and go to the game with the other girl first then come to the party afterwards.
2007-12-21 19:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do YOU want to do? I would think that you're the only one who can make that decision. If you want to go to a basketball game with her & the party later, go...or if you just want to go to the party--go. :)
Have fun!
2007-12-21 19:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Froggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go. (personally, i'd pick the party)Unless it's a bunch of guys you don't know, that's a little sketchy. But if you feel uncomfortable go to the game then the party.
2007-12-21 19:08:40 · answer #7 · answered by Sarra . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basket ball game first then the party.. Of course I am tempted to tell you to go to the party and check out all the guys first and get first dibs.. but to be safe.. better to go with the girls.
2007-12-21 19:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the game with the girl and then go to the party. Be smart.
2007-12-21 19:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Eh, go to the party! An extra hour can make you real social and have lots of fun!
2007-12-21 19:07:11 · answer #10 · answered by ♥↔♥ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋