I really really really want a baby so how do I tell my boyfriend. He is 30 and I'm 26. He told me if anythung happens to me he will always be there for me. yes have a place to live and a car and money and insuretane. but do i tell him that i want one and what are some ideas on ways of getting pregnant. but how long will it take for me to get pregnant if i get off the pill on sunday. but i'm really scared to talk to my man about stuff like this.we have been together a year and half.
2007-12-21 10:54:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can understand that this is an emotionally charged issue for you and you fear his rejecting the notion, but you can't very well have a baby by yourself, so you might as well pick a suitable time and discuss the issue. It wouldn't be fair to trick him into impregnating you by going off of your normal birth control without informing him (because if things [God forbid] didn't work out between you he'd have to pay child support, regardless.) So, it's better for this to be an informed decision. I wish you the very best of luck, and Happy Holidays.
2007-12-21 11:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOO NOOO NOOOO ,, DO NOT DO THIS.. its called entrapment . U CANT JUST DECIDE ON YOUR OWN TO HAVE A CHILD , the man you are with first must also agree , and WANT A CHILD TOO.
ACCIDENTS HAPPEN yes but if u choose to go behind his back what are you actually saying then i want my own way and i dont care what you want. . as a christian i cant recomend u even living together other than mariage,
NONETHELESS u make it worse by becoming pregnant on purpose when it should be planned if possible. / when u love someone u dont purposely go behind their back and do something that they have not agreed upon.
a child takes planning for the most part and this needs to be fully discussed openly.. / do others agree or disagre? bro mj
2007-12-21 19:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by mjbrightergem33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT get pregnant if you are not sure that he wants to have one.
BIG Mistake. Repeat: BIG Mistake.
A baby is a huge commitment... you are not married, what do you think is likely to happen if he doesn't want to have a baby and be married - think of the baby - you cannot be so selfish.
Why do you think there are so many single moms out there - it is tough enough even when you want to.
Wake up!!
2007-12-21 19:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a baby, dont con him into thinking you wont. he would probably be pissed off at you for that. honestly the best thing to do is sit down and tell him that you want t ababy but i mean you can always let him know that whatever happens happens
2007-12-21 18:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by XñΘ×ØÑΣ×└Ö√ËŠ×╫ë®X 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys should talk and if u want have sex?
cuz thats how u make babies! XD
2007-12-21 19:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by JH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask Dr. Laura....
2007-12-21 18:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by looking 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋