My boyfriend spanks me when we have sex is this "OK"?
2007-12-21 10:46:28 · 18 answers · asked by it'sallaboutme...NOT! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
lol yeah sure... thats not serious hitting to hurt you its only play spanking and usually feels good for those involved if they like it...
Like anything sex wise its good as long as both are happy with it and its safe.
Lits also pretty normal and playful likewise stuff like fluffy hand cuffs and tie up games.
BUT VERY STRICT SAFTYRULES IF TIE UP GAMES.
ONLY EVER STEADY PARTNERS YOU COMPLETELY TRUST NEVER STRANGERS
(IN CASE THEY ARE PSYCHOS)
only use stuff you can get off fast, NOTHING EVER GOES AROUND THE NECK or in mouth, ALWAYS have safety words which mean claim down or STOP now (sometimes people use traffic light colours).
Usually its suilly role play like one is the baddy and the other is the innocent one like some micky take from a movie scene
So if you are having fun and it gets you closer together its fine have fun, get snuggly be in love just practice safe sex
2007-12-21 11:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you break up can you come my way I'd like to spank you too!
2007-12-22 00:28:42 · answer #2 · answered by Steven R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you both enjoy is ok. So if spanking's a turn-on for you - as it obviously is for him - then go ahead and have fun!
2007-12-22 04:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer to this Question, is what YOU say , not what WE say.
If you say its OK, then it is. If you say NO , then its NOT OK
BTW , a spanking can be a great warm up for some great sex
2007-12-22 04:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how he does it, if it is just light playful swats that don't hurt that's fine but if you can trace his fingerprints in your but you might want to ask him to stop or at least not hit so hard. and if all else fails, spank him might get the message across
2007-12-21 22:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by tamara 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people get pleasure from spanking. It is harmless if both parties agree. If you don't like it, tell him to stop
2007-12-21 18:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by No! I'm NOT Elton John 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shouldnt this be in a singles and dating catagory or a romance catagory or something?
or are you trying to arouse the people with spanking fetishes? or the anti spankers?
2007-12-21 18:58:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
OK?
Its essential in my book ;-) lol
Whatever you enjoy is purely between the two of you and as long as you like him doing it, its absolutely fine.
2007-12-21 19:04:04 · answer #8 · answered by munchkin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya its fine unless its a harmful thing or unless you dont like it then tell him to stop but if not then ya.
2007-12-21 19:14:20 · answer #9 · answered by Shelby Elena A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you like it.
If you don't then you should tell him to stop.
2007-12-21 19:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Malina 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋