okay... idk whats wrong with me.
nobody has asked me out for like 4 years (im only 16 but still)
and idk. i go to school in newport beach (CA) and im blonde (but not that typical stupid oc girls). im actually really smart but not a nerd or anything. i am on the dance team i am like pro at skiing and im a starter on my highschool varsity soccer team..
and im not a mean person. and all my friends say im super fun to hang out with and really funny.. yet.. no guys are even talking to me.. like not really.. whats wrong?!? please help.
2007-12-21 10:46:02 · 27 answers · asked by A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i see a girl like i would defantly think that you are the most difficult to get,
2007-12-21 10:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay advice for you right now is why would you care? you're clearly living your life to the fullest (actually i'm a little jealous at all you've accomplished) and a BF will only tear you away first you'll miss one practise then another then you'll be out, most guys in high schoolprobably think you're too awesome to have a shot are there any guys you like? tyr taking the initiative if you really want a BF but wow girl keep it up you'll get someone eventualy who knows they may even deserve you!
2007-12-21 10:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by Kalina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you, my dear. besides, you're only 16 and shouldn't be thinking of going out that much. These things can wait, you will have your own time. When I was your age, i also feel the way you feel. When i turned 17-21, oh boy, iv had enough men already.
Just wait.. u will have your own time.
2007-12-21 10:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by jex9925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i always thought i was such a freak in high school because i didnt get a boyfriend (or even asked out or kissed) until i was almost 17.
Its funny though.. b/c when i talk to people now.. they tell me how popular i was and how they wanted to be me etc.
My point is... your still at a very awkward stage where people arent open about their feeligns and probably everyone feels just like you. EVERYONE i talks to felt like that then. I know you feel like the only one in the world w/o a boyfriend.. but your not.
Just wait until your in college... trust me.. you will have PLENTY of guys then and be happy that you didnt date alot in high school!
You have plenty of time. dont dwell on it.
2007-12-21 10:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart...you're 16. You have awhile before you should be comcerned about being single. When you're surrounded by cats, knitting sweaters for them and they all have their own way of communicating with you, then be concerned. Until then, enjoy your friends, sports, school(depends on your high school), and if a guy asks you out, great! If not, oh well. There is someone out their for you, hun.
2007-12-21 10:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by vampyrvlad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...judging from the way you anwered my question, you are quick to judge. I have helped people my whole life and never myself. Don't come on here and call others selfish when you do not know them. PS...."Typical stupid OC girls" is a very nasty and condescending phrase. It is best to not think you are better than others.
2007-12-21 10:54:48 · answer #6 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that you just make a really bad first impression. I know that is HUGE when it comes to relationships. Personally, when I meet new people I become very nervous and end up saying stupid things.... Which obviously doesn't make someone want to go out with you...
2007-12-21 10:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by illustrator 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wait for guys to ask you out, its ok for a girl to ask a guy out too. I dont care what other people say it doesnt make you look bad at all. just make sure the person you are asking out is single. *OR* just talk to guys more in general about anything, someones bound to get the hint.
2007-12-21 10:52:42 · answer #8 · answered by Serious Shuck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with u.U probably try 2 hahd to impress, just relax a little and the world will come 2 u.
2007-12-21 10:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by sinbaad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 05:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by scharff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so young, guys your age are just shy about asking girls out. Just be friendy and try to talk to them. Go out on group activities with other guys & girls so there is no pressure.
2007-12-21 10:51:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋